WHY DO WE BREAK OUT MEN’S BRAINS?👉🏼 From idleness. In principle, this article could have ended here. Because “brain drain” occurs precisely when we have a lot of free time, which we do not fill with anything useful or interesting. Remember, when you are very busy at work or passionate about something interesting, it occurs to you to call and write to a man every 5 minutes, asking where he is, what he’s doing, why he hasn’t called for so long, didn’t call you sunshine in his last message, and what’s going on? I think that the answer will be negative. And the more and more often you behave this way, the less often they call and write to you, answer you coldly or rudely, do not pay attention and generally try to communicate as little as possible. It's like a chain reaction, one thing begets another. And this is a pattern. You can object to me - how can I think about something for myself if he doesn’t call or behaves badly? Maybe he fell out of love? And I will answer - first of all, you need to love yourself, and secondly a man. The phrase is as old as the world, but nevertheless does not lose its relevance - first love yourself, and others will love you. But for some reason we very often forget about this simple truth. One of the options for “cooling down”: men have periods when they “go into a cave.” This means that they want to be alone, to think, to finally be with friends, to distance themselves a little. This happens infrequently and the reasons may be different (including moving away a little if the rapprochement with you is very strong), but it is really important for them that no one touches them at this moment. And, if a woman knows about this and waits patiently on the sidelines, then they return even more full of love and enthusiasm. And, if a woman begins to peck at the brain, then they go even deeper into their cave and later come out of there. How to correct a similar situation in a relationship? The answer is very simple - fill your free time with something interesting just for yourself. And you will see how your relationship with your loved one changes and improves. This is also a pattern :) And the brain will remain intact and the relationship will be strong! And, when you want to nag your man again, just re-read my article. Have you noticed something similar in your life or in the lives of loved ones? Ilga Landgraf You can sign up for a consultation with me here I will be glad to see you in my Telegram channel: https:// t.me/ilgalandgraf_psyAnd also in the VKontakte group: https://vk.com/ilgalandgraf_psy