From the author: This article is about different approaches to achieving happiness. Often people are so immersed in achieving what they lack that they miss and lose the happiness that is nearby. And vice versa, people are always busy with something, but mostly not with what makes them happy. It is very important to understand what is the goal, the figure, and not to be scattered into the background. To let happiness into your life, you just need to change the perspective of your perception. The article was published on my website Every person has a cherished dream - what he really wants, but is not yet enough to achieve complete happiness. As a rule, discomfort and the desire to get what is missing makes a person look for a solution and becomes an incentive for its development. After all, most people bring life problems and the desire to solve them to psychology and spiritual knowledge. There are 2 fundamentally different approaches to solving the issue of achieving what you want, which I propose to consider and adopt. Firstly, in the absence of what you want, it is important not to fall into grief and suffering, but to act and look for a way out. Otherwise, in order to force a person to develop in the next round, new problems will be added to the missing ones, acting as a magic kick-start. Therefore, it is wiser to draw conclusions and develop for pleasure, without waiting for problems. As a rule, what a person wants and lacks (money, love, recognition) is associated with happiness. And accordingly, in order to find happiness a person needs to solve this problem. Until the problem is solved, a person cannot fully feel happy. And this is one of the main traps because of which people cannot feel happiness. After all, the process of getting what you want can drag on for years: a person cannot always get what he wants in the form he wants. Not all problems can be solved quickly; some may require years of searching and working on yourself. And that in this case a person will live without feeling happy? What if what he dreams of never comes true? Then you need to come to terms with the fact that life is not a success? The first approach is to continue to persistently look for reasons and achieve what you want. In this strategy, it is useful to identify the causes of the problem. Astrological diagnostics will help with this, with the help of which you can also determine the most effective means to solve it. By involving specialists, you can quickly achieve what you want and feel happiness faster. Often, super-desire and obsession with possession blocks its achievement. And in this case, you need to reduce the significance or switch to something positive and meaningful. This often happens when a long-awaited pregnancy does not occur. Some problems just need to be let go. The desired will happen faster if at the same time a person lives a full life, feeling happiness in its other manifestations. Therefore, you should not postpone happiness or reduce it to some aspect of life! After all, despite the fact that something is missing, a person always has something that can give him a feeling of happiness. This could be family, friends, interesting work, hobbies, communication, travel and various joys of life. You just need to learn to see happiness around you, learn to tune in to it and create reasons for happiness. To find happiness when choosing life guidelines, it is important to take a strategic course towards HAPPINESS. And make my choices according to whether what I do, what I choose, what I spend my time on gives me happiness. This way, a person will more often do what he likes, be with those who make him feel warm. There will be more positive things in life. The wider a person’s range of manifestations of happiness, the more fulfilling and joyful his life. After all, life is not measured by age and the number of days lived! There is a parable about this. Ali came to the teacher and asked to help him gain wealth. “Why do you need wealth?” - asked the teacher. “I will be able to help my family, I will have the opportunity to buy what I want. If I haveIf I have money, I can open a workshop. When I am wealthy, I will be able to get married and start a family,” Ali answered. “And what will that give you?” - asked the teacher. “If this all works out, then I will be a happy person!” “Then maybe you should start with the main thing - learn to be happy? - said the teacher. After all, you have a lot to be happy now. But at the same time you are not able to appreciate it. It is not a fact that even if you find what you want, you will be happy. By learning to feel happiness, you will quickly find everything you want. And your wishes will be easier to fulfill,” said the teacher. “But I really need money now!” - answered the young man. If you get money, you won't necessarily be happy. At first, you will be glad that you can buy something and help your loved ones. But then it turns out that there is not enough money. And if you lose them or get robbed, it will cause disappointment and suffering. What then?” Ali thought about it, but could not agree with the teacher. Seeing his doubts, the teacher sent the young man to the ancient eastern cemetery, saying that there he could get an answer to his question. The young man set off. And a few months later I found an ancient cemetery. Passing by the graves, he discovered strange inscriptions: “Mary. Lived 14 days and 10 hours", "Aron. Lived 30 days and 5 hours", "Zulfiya. She lived for 2 months, 3 days and 10 hours.” These inscriptions shocked Ali and he turned to the keeper of the cemetery: “What befell these unfortunate people? Why did they live so short? What's going on here?" To which the keeper replied: “In our country, from birth, every person is given a diary in which he records his moments and periods of happiness. We believe that a person lived as long as he was happy. And if he’s not happy, then he didn’t live at all!” That's why it's so important to learn the most important skill - to be happy. Happiness is what we feel. This is a special emotional state. And we can control it by learning to tune into its wave. Therefore, you should not wait for happiness. You can learn to create it every day. The sooner a person learns to fill his life with happiness, the more fulfilling, brighter and more joyful his life will become. This can be learned. Thanks to the formation of new qualities and habits, you will stop being upset because you don’t have something now or not enough. You will learn to create a state of abundance and see favorable opportunities to attract what you want. Instead of being sad about the absence of a loved one, you will begin to do more things that you like and bring joy, where you will quickly meet someone who is close to you in spirit. You will learn to switch from irritation and dissatisfaction to what you really want. And what you want will begin to come true faster, and life will be more and more joyful. By choosing the right direction for your life, you will begin to spend every day more interestingly and receive more satisfaction. And after a couple of months you will notice that you radiate joy, and people have become more friendly towards you. The energy of happiness is a magnet that helps to attract favorable opportunities, making it easier and faster to achieve what you want. My distance training “School of Happy People” is dedicated to developing the ability to tune in to the wave of happiness. It starts on November 12 and during 31 days of training, its participants will take 14 lessons and master the key secrets of happiness, 60 effective exercises, techniques and meditations that will help you understand a lot about the causes of your conditions and learn how to change them so as to feel more happiness and attract good luck . You can get acquainted with the detailed training plan, reviews of the first and second graduates of the “School of the Lucky” from Ukraine, Russia, Holland, Germany, China and the USA! Here are some of them: “As a result of the training, I practically stopped feeling negative, and if I get angry, I can switch or calm down. In a state of happiness, everything develops interestingly and as if by itself. I'm almost closer to what I understand".