Each of us has a basic “thought virus” in our minds, which makes us feel inferior and flawed in life. A kind of internal insufficiency that forces you to live a certain way every day, be with certain people and follow certain values. It can manifest itself in our beliefs and values, in any actions and ways of communicating with the world. For example, if I don’t achieve my goals, then they will no longer respect me - I will lose authority, or, if I live the way I want, then I will be selfish and will be left alone... Of course, no one wants to be unloved or lose their authority. And therefore, a certain model of behavior becomes a protection from the outside world or just a way of interacting with it. But no matter what we do, the unloved little man inside us, in order not to feel unbearable pain, forces us to act as he needs and sets the highest possible standards, which are most often unattainable, which drives us into a corner. Just think, In every aggressor there is always a victim. in every rescuer - drowned, in every Don Juan - abandoned... In every authority - rejected... And the list goes on... And as if this part that we have not lived through becomes our enemy, that is, the one who constantly harms our happiness. As much as it is displaced from consciousness and acceptance. But this part is... And a person is designed in such a way that he always strives for inner harmony and integrity. Therefore, by living it, you can find new experience, potential for development, fullness and maturity of self-expression. Previously, this was called initiation...Copyright © Anna Klimovskaya, 2016. When using materials, a link to this page is required https://vk.com/living_to