Men like to think that they understand women, can control them and condescendingly turn a blind eye to their “cute nonsense.” Unfortunately, men's understanding of women is very limited, which inevitably leads to self-deception and, as a result, difficulties in relationships. A man who convinces himself that he “knows everything about women” is like a crazy sailor heading into the heart tsunami on an inflatable boat without oars. A group of women shared with me 9 mysteries that they think men can't understand about women. Maybe after this, we, men, will begin to understand a little better these unique creatures (in the good sense of the word).1. She may criticize her friends, but you won't. When a woman is upset about her relationship with friends or family and wants to share her feelings with her man, you need to be especially careful. The man’s task is simply to listen and nod his head. The main and only true phrase: “You are absolutely right!” If a man wants to express his true opinion about a woman’s friends or, God forbid, criticize her for her wrong attitude towards them, a scandal will break out. It’s better to generally remain silent about her mother!2. She doesn’t always need your advice. Men have a built-in option to have the “correct” opinion on everything and teach a woman what would be best for her to do. When a woman shares her problems with a man, she does not always hear a stream of moralizing. Most often, she simply needs a free ear and a pair of loving eyes. At the same time, it is not at all necessary to open your mouth. 3. Her items are not interchangeable There is a huge difference between a clutch, a crossbody and a backpack, and a man doesn’t need to understand it. Don’t gently roll your eyes and spew sarcasm from not understanding why one person needs so many things with the same functions. Millet buy them for her, considering that this is a tax for the right to be near.4. She has the right not to give birth. The ovaries are women's property, and she can dispose of them as she pleases. Only God can reproach a woman for not wanting to have children, and she will deal with him herself. A man has the right to leave such a woman, but he does not have the right to morally rape her, forcing her to do what she does not want.5. Pillows rule the world A man should not fight with pillows; they come as a free addition to almost every woman. Trying to understand the logic of why pillows and pads should be everywhere is as pointless as trying to guess the outcome of a biathlon race. You need to accept the fact that pillows are cozy, cute and “not like at a train station.”6. Shopping does not mean buying things. Women need to go to stores. For men, buying things is always pragmatic and fast-paced. I need panties, so I go to the store and buy panties. For a woman, going to shopping centers is a form of social communication, meditation and a unique opportunity to be in a comfortable atmosphere. It’s also strange for women how you can go crazy, kick the sofa and scream at three in the morning because one of the 22 men scored the ball into the goal.7. She needs group chats Another difference between women and men is the mania to participate and create group chats. See how a woman can be captivated by the events taking place there. There is no need to condemn her for wasting her time on nonsense and collecting rumors. If she does this, it means it matters to her. The information she receives in chats is sometimes very, very useful. For example, thanks to chats, the following appeared in the house: summer tires, an inhaler for a child, a cage for a rat and a lot of intimate details from the lives of neighbors. 8. The difference between her purse and a first aid kit is negligible. Next to the man is a personal doctor, ready to save lives and perform operations whenever and wherever. Why does a woman carry so many medical items in her purse? I allowed myself the impudence and asked my girlfriend to show the contents of the largest of her dozen bags. As a result, I saw: phthalazole (4 tablets out of 10), aspirin (a package without one tablet), noshpa (3"