This is the story of a client of mine who was in short-term focused psychoanalytic psychotherapy. The relationship between early childhood trauma, subsequent sexual life and problems in sex has been traced. DESCRIPTION, APPEARANCE OF THE CLIENT. Definitely will attract the attention of any person; you don’t often see such people on the street: colored dreadlocks, facial piercings, all arms covered in beautiful colored tattoos, bright, stylish clothes. Age 33 years. Not from Russia, he speaks Russian well, however, due to his strong accent, I understood 80 percent of the information, without an accent he only swore. He introduced himself with two names: one name he was given at birth - Chukwuemuka, and the second at baptism - Andre (names slightly changed). I called him by his first name, since there was a lot about him that was childish: short, slender, with a build more like a teenager than an adult man. He is one of those people who can be safely given either 15 years or 25. Later he said that only I called him by his childhood name. Lives in Russia for several years. RELATIONSHIP. He was never deprived of female attention: his wide snow-white smile and dimples on his cheeks broke many hearts. Only occasionally could one catch a cold, wary, calculating gaze. There were never long-term relationships; they all ended in a breakup after three months, just like our work, which lasted exactly three months. He spoke of women as evil, vengeful, selfish, materialistic, who are only interested in money and sex. He complained that women often used him and mocked him. He was looking for a woman who would agree to enter into a fictitious marriage with him in order to obtain citizenship. He complained that one of them added him to a marriage scam site. The relationship with his parents is complicated: periodically he blocks them for a while, then communicates, then blacklists them again. JOB. At the first sessions he behaved with restraint, saying that he worked as a courier in a delivery service and lived on a student visa. Later he admitted that he was selling drugs, but did not go into details. HOBBIES: tik-tok. PROBLEM. During sexual intercourse he almost never cums; this was achieved with difficulty and very rarely. There were no problems with potency, I could have sex for several hours in a row. I didn’t masturbate because I didn’t see the point in it. The problem began at the age of 13. CHILDREN'S HISTORY. The family had two children, he and an older brother. The family is very religious and strict, so as a child he did not have toys. He spent the first few years of his life locked up, his parents did not let him out of the house, since his previous child died, drowned in the river, and his parents were very afraid that something would happen to him. When asked how he usually spent his leisure time as a child, he replied that he learned to breakdance, so now he has scars all over his knees. RESEARCH OF THE PROBLEM. How it all began. Sexual life began at the age of five, he was seduced by his nanny, who looked after him. I won’t describe the details, but she did with him what adults usually do in bed. My parents were not aware because they worked a lot. Every night was full of fears for him; he waited with horror for the nanny to come. His older brother also contributed to this story by telling him stories about sex and how he did it with different girls. When the client and his brother grew up, their parents sent them to live with their grandmother in another city, since their small village only had an elementary school. This was at the time the client was 9-10 years old. There a free and free life began for him. The children were left to their own devices; the grandmother was old and did not particularly care for the children. The boy spent most of his free time on the street, where he had sex with children like him, girls 9-12 years old. When the client was 13 years old, they had a lecture on sexuality education at school. From this lecture he learned that girls can.