From the author: What a topic! Do you agree? Alphonse and the women of gigoloSo, who is gigolo? What do you think? There are plenty of scientific characteristics of this type. But each individual person has his own gigolo! Beloved.....and, like his opposite side, a vile type (for women and most men). So you are wrong! Well, what did Alphonse do to you that was so bad? Well, they live at the expense of.... But it’s not by force! Those others themselves agree. And even more - they raise them themselves! Sometimes a man doesn’t even want to - but she’s right there! "Lady with a dog". Or a lady with property! And ready to pay for his love and attention.... to take care.... to serve.... Although not! He is serving her - Alfonsik. This is his great purpose for the “Golo Woman”. So! Once these two! attracted - you will agree that they are very helpful to each other! And not only! They are necessary! For what? That is the question. Let's look: I think for this.....further we will talk about this and everything "about" this topic. Firstly, we will divide gigolos into 2 categories: - conscious - forced. Agree - these are 2 big differences. The first is looking , where to make some money. And the second one is looking for something of his own - love, for example. And she’s all so “giving” that to his weak “no” she strongly objects and gives... And now he is becoming more and more dependent on her, like on a mommy giving to him, because suddenly, yes he will run away and abandon him. But he no longer wants to run away. Since she is “Mom”, he is her “child”. And it’s so nice to do nothing and have it! Of course, there are exceptions - a woman accidentally “comes to her senses” and “cuts off” oxygen to her child - she suddenly wants to become, well, if not the daughter of a former gigolo, then at least his partner. Because he ran out of gas. But he’s not ready for that! For him it's like a flood! like a volcano! Like this? This is for himself! do everything???? What does she allow herself???? How is it???????? And the gigolo turns on his manipulation mechanisms in order to return his “beloved” - the methods are different, depending on the trauma of our gigolo. Often these are childhood traumas with his mother: from “mild illness” to hatred. If a slight illness was the cause of gigoloization, then “To the woman gigolo" is incredibly lucky! she will get away with whining and complaining. True, quite long. And, if it is hatred of “mommy” - oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo These will be “harsh measures” - from threats to violent measures. He will literally threaten and not so much her as her children and loved ones. He will make fun of her on social networks. He will watch over her near the house... True, the “shocking” will end with the same whining. As a result! The gigolo woman will become stronger and more confident. She will now be more careful in her choice.....Perhaps (and even certainly) she will turn to a psychologist (she will have to, as in my practice, for example). And she will discover that she also has “childhood traumas”, which it was her gigolo who helped her “fight” with! Well, what would she do without HIM???? She would have lived in ignorance, she would have never developed, she would not have changed her life... The only problem is that often a gigolo woman chooses “his beloved” all her life.......... Until she is forced to see a psychologist. It will be forced. The reason is a threat to the lives of her children, for example. If not this, she will continue to engage in sponsorship, altruism and sacrifice - to the fullest - and will even imagine that she is happy! The gigolo woman has many illusions. And these illusory expectations remain expectations. For example, she firmly believes that he loves her and is faithful (wishes) only to her! Unless she finally turns into a gigolo’s friend, or even dares to offer him to become his daughter. Not explicitly, of course. So, from afar...How to do this and stop sponsoring a “need”? - easily. We need to start asking for it... more and more often. So to speak, switch roles. And then he himself will run away! to another gigolo woman. Stronger and more grateful for his service. Look! I dared to ask! Whom! His! WITH.....