Our fantasies can be extremely rich and varied. But what price does a person pay for such a rich inner world? What makes a person create rich images in his head? For what? Is this a natural talent or a forced defense of the psyche from excessive loneliness? The psychological literature often describes cases where children invent non-existent friends and become very attached to them and position them as living. Many people think that a small child simply has a great imagination and few people think to ask him when and under what circumstances this or that friend appeared. The “child’s drama” lies in the fact that their adaptation to society is impaired, since instead of establishing interpersonal relationships, their psyche begins to protect the personality from decay and lack of contact. We all know that if a child develops without the sensory touches of other people, then the individual will not be able to become healthy according to accepted social norms. But what brings the psyche into a state where a child goes into fantasy??? This question has its roots in the child’s educators, who are often too caught up in their problems and life that they simply do not notice that the little person is experiencing the whole range of emotions. Parents or guardians must clearly understand that the child needs daily protection, positive stroking and love. If one of the elements falls out, then the child begins to feel the need for the satisfaction of being accepted and loved. This melancholy, under the yoke of dissatisfaction, will begin to look for other outlets for realization. Often, under anxiety states (hypervision, child masturbation and inappropriate behavior), melancholy, sadness and sadness are hidden. But withdrawn children who do not make contact also give a signal that their needs are not being met. To be loved, accepted, heard, and to have the opportunity to get a response to one’s fears is very important for a person, especially a little one who has not yet learned to live in such a diverse world. Often such children become dependent in adulthood, as the weight of loneliness unconsciously pulls them into the “pools” of the past. Fantasies can also take less pronounced forms. Many of us, before falling asleep, dream of another life. This is also evidence of dissatisfaction with the needs of solitude and the desire to change something in oneself. I encourage everyone to be more attentive to themselves and their desires. Don’t ignore them and then perhaps you will overcome the fears of the past and discover the horizons of your changes!