There is a huge difference between the search for salvation and healing. People often come to therapy for the first, being in search of salvation. Most often, others. Sometimes yourself. Loved ones. An unsuccessful marriage. Destiny unsettled, mangled and beaten by life. Broken. And it didn’t take place. Not happy. Sometimes insensitive. Salvation can be sought in work, in books, in other people, in hobbies, in hobbies, in men, in women, in food, in sex, in drugs, in alcohol, in computer games, in smartphones, in money, in religion, in magicians, in fortune tellers, in astrology, in sports, in self-development, in family, in children, in husband, in wife, in mother, in son, in daughter. This will give you anything you want, depending on what which method you choose. But not healing. If you imagine it metaphorically. That's when you stub your toe on your left foot. The first thing you realize is that you're in pain. You don't deny your pain. You don't say everyone hurts. You don't minimize by saying that your neighbor doesn't have a leg at all, and nothing he lives somehow. You don’t rush to treat your husband, whose leg is fine. Repressing and projecting your pain onto him. You do not blame yourself, take a hammer and hit the sore finger even more, that it is his own fault for not looking around. You do not blame your mother, the state, spouse, children and others, who are next to you at that moment, is that it was they who put the nightstand that way. You don’t run to the store for alcohol, or to the gym, or to the library, or to church. The first thing you do, you recognize. That you are alive. That you are actually in pain, that it is normal to feel pain when you are injured. The second thing you do is assess the risks and consequences of your injury. You admit that it is not possible to heal this pain completely, right now, and in the case of serious fractures, it will not work at all. Long-term rehabilitation is needed. Relapses are possible. Re-injury. And your leg may ache, ache, itch, and in the worst case scenario, your leg will be amputated altogether. If this is a chronic disease or an advanced abscess, a course that you have not dealt with for a long time. But you will have a healthy leg and the main thing is that you survived at all. The third thing you do is admit that it is not your fault that you hurt your toe. And the guilt of others. And the state's fault. And the parents' guilt. And the guilt of the spouses. As it turns out, if you take a closer look at each of them. I have my own stubbed toe. And everyone here is actually a victim to some extent. Everyone is saved, and in the best case, healed as best they can at the moment. The fourth thing you do is you realize that if it is not your fault. But the pain is still there. That is, your responsibility for your pain. And for the relief of your pain, you are responsible for your bruised finger. Of all the possible means at your disposal today. Here's exactly what you have on hand. According to availability. Sometimes with green paint, sometimes with a bandage, and sometimes to a specialist for an x-ray, and sometimes on a regular basis. Where you speak directly and openly ask, look, here it hurts, don’t get up on purpose, and most importantly, you begin to take care of yourself. And feel. This is the difference between healing and salvation. You can make an appointment for a consultation by phone number 8-960-315-14-37