" I can’t get a girl’s happiness piecemeal, I need everything at once...." Lyudmila from the film “Moscow Doesn’t Believe in Tears.” I propose to look at the family from the following angle: Let’s say To satisfy the need for a TV, you need a TV. To satisfy the need for food - a refrigerator with food. The need for intimacy is human. And the need for respect - ...And for the fulfillment of meanings - ...And for the embodiment of values ​​- ...Unexpectedly for herself, Lyudmila, under the auspices of “EVERYTHING AT ONCE”, was looking for “PARTS” - a man or a refrigerator. At the same time, without thinking about “EVERYTHING” - family. It’s an amazing thing, but family is everything for a person in early childhood. Mom is the whole world. In tandem with the Pope - social model, environment and structure. For a family, it’s an opportunity to live out the role of a child and look at other roles. Where else can you do this? Moreover, without a family (by the way, this could be grandparents) a person, in principle, does not become a person. I mean children who were raised by animals. Personality is not formed! So why is the benefit of family for the role of a child obvious, but when the child becomes big, this benefit ceases to be? Have you heard that family is not fashionable? Family crisis! That you need to engage in self-development, business, improve competencies, and constantly learn. And as if these circumstances should cancel out the Family! And in what environment would you like to develop yourself? In Bali? Nothing in this life develops under ideal conditions. Do you agree? Development occurs through tension. Through the use of forces. Through the desire to survive. Let's say you figured out the role of the child. Where will you develop the role of an adult and parent? Where are you selling yourself? Online? Family is a universal trainer for personal development in any period of life. And here I want to visualize the barbell, as in those very self-development trainings🤞🏻You won’t get pumped up by studying video lessons on training in the “lotus” position in Thailand. But you will definitely develop in hands with a barbell! Family is a heavy simulator, but with 100% results! It’s the same with the personality and roles of an adult and a parent. The simulator for the development of these structures is the family. This is exactly the barbell! Ps: - As a marketer, I will say that no one “sells” a family. You can’t make money on self-sufficient people... - Then I’ll take care of these “sales”! The desire to write an article arose after communicating with marketers. Two views collided and I hope I managed to make “pre-sale preparation” for you 😀 Family is always different, but this volume of differences cannot be found in other places. Working with these differences is self-development (unless, of course, you really have a need for development, and you are not ready to fly to Thailand 😀☝)