Each of us communicates with different people. People with different views on the world, different attitudes to life, different ethnicities, and so on. It is important to adhere to the rules of etiquette in dialogue, but not every one of us can correctly build dialogues with others. There are a number of questions that are tactless, they violate the boundaries of the interlocutor and put him in an uncomfortable position.1. Why don't you get married? Why don’t you have a partner? This question can be asked to a very close friend (but, as a rule, we already know about a close friend why she doesn’t get married or doesn’t have a personal life). And such a question addressed to a stranger is considered tactless, since we do not have the level of intimacy with the person to ask such questions, which, moreover, can make the person uncomfortable.2. How much do you earn? This question is also considered tactless, as it violates other people’s boundaries. A person may be ashamed of his income, considering it too small, or believe, on the contrary, that his income is too high compared to your standard of living. This is very inconvenient to say. In any case, the question of money income is too personal and people should not answer such personal questions at all.3. Why don't you have children? Why don’t you give birth to a second one (if you have a first one)? This question is also considered to violate personal boundaries, since it forces a person to answer a very confidential topic. A person may not want children and at the same time will have to explain or justify why he does not want them. A person may have problems with childbearing, still really want children and experience pain when faced with such issues. Therefore, this question is unacceptable in a healthy dialogue.4. Have you done anti-aging procedures? This question is also considered incorrect only if you are not a cosmetologist or a specialist in such procedures and the girl did not come to your office as a client. In all other cases, if this is your colleague, acquaintance, friend, neighbor, etc., this question is tactless, because the person may experience discomfort and reluctance to share details about their cosmetic procedures. This is very personal, intimate information and you can only ask something like this from a close friend with a certain level of intimacy between you. If she wants, she will most likely be the first to share this with you.5. Why aren't you losing weight? How much do you weigh? These questions are also considered incorrect because they create discomfort for the interlocutor. A girl may not want to engage in weight loss because it suits her, even if she is overweight. She may have been struggling with weight for a long time without success, and your question will indicate her weak point and hurt her. She may have health problems and therefore be overweight and very complex about this. This question cannot be asked.6. Why did you go to the doctor? Why did you go to the doctor? These are very personal questions. And even if you know that a person has visited a doctor or is going to a doctor, this is his personal business and has nothing to do with you. A person may not want to answer this question, be embarrassed about the problem that he is going to solve with a doctor, etc. Such a question cannot be asked7. Why don't you wear makeup? Why don't you use cosmetics? Why do you dress in such things? Questions about the appearance of your interlocutor also violate personal boundaries. A person may have a number of reasons why he does not want to use cosmetics, does not want to change his clothing style, and so on. However, he is not obliged to explain or report to us for whatever reason he does not do this. If he finds it necessary, he will tell us about it himself. Be tactful towards others and do not ask questions that look like a provocation and violate the boundaries of another person. At such moments, it is better to think once again to what extent your question is correct and about that. And if you were asked a similar question and you don’t want to answer it, then you need to: 1. Change the topic of conversation, ignoring the question; 2. Answer the question with a question: “Why are you interested in this? Why do you!