What kind of woman can become ideal for a man? Maybe they are attracted to “vampire women” with a bright appearance and a minimum of complexes, or maybe, on the contrary, good-natured simpletons who can create comfort in the home? In my opinion, this is a purely individual matter, to each his own, as they say. Each man has his own ideal, which can often echo the image of his mother, but still there are general concepts of “ideality.”1. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. This is the point that men put first. And although this is a very hackneyed topic, the mistake of many women is that after marriage they change into greasy robes and stop taking care of themselves. But a man needs his woman to be beautiful not only on holidays, but every day. They are very flattered when others look at HIS woman. 2. Give the man the opportunity to rest. This may seem strange to some, but men can get tired too. But in reality, it’s quite normal that when he comes home from work 2-3, he may forget to buy your favorite dessert in the supermarket or forget to tell his praises about how much he missed him that day... Of course, attention is very important for women, but you shouldn’t ask all at once. If you see that a man is collapsing from fatigue, provide him with comfort and rest, and then his words about his feelings for you will be much sincere. 3. Don’t criticize. No matter how hard you try, you’ll hardly be able to change an adult man. And with each new attempt to do this, a woman loses attractiveness in the eyes of a man. After all, criticism will lead a weak man into confusion and even greater complexes, while a strong man will be driven into rage. Therefore, even if it seems to you that your husband’s next idea is bullshit, then either keep your opinion to yourself, or tell him about it gently... Otherwise, you are guaranteed either a neurotic husband or a “brain explosion.” 4. Care. It is very important for men to feel needed. Even if outwardly he looks like the Great Wall of China, inside it is very important to him, through the manifestation of his care for someone who, in their opinion, is weaker and more defenseless, men realize a biological need inherent in nature itself. After all, since ancient times, a man was a protector and provider, but modern women try to do everything themselves, unnecessarily unburdening men. Therefore, let them look after you, give flowers and gifts, carry heavy bags from stores and stand up for you in an argument, and do not forget to express sincere gratitude. In this way, you will further fuel his self-esteem and tie him to you. 5. “Don’t wash dirty linen in public.” If a quarrel occurs between you, there is no need to defiantly call your mother or friend and complain about your betrothed. At least you don't have to do it in front of him. Go to the kitchen, to the bathroom - let off steam. Moreover, there is no need to discuss your problems in company, especially in front of his friends. Otherwise, a wave of his negativity will hit you immediately and the relationship will only get worse. What is better: to stroke your pride or preserve the relationship - of course, it’s up to you to decide. Now some of the readers are probably thinking indignantly: a ton of articles have already been written about this! But why then does this still remain relevant today? It’s not enough to know, you need to start doing... In general, the most important thing for men is to be sincerely loved, and for true love they will forgive us any mistakes :)