In our culture, the fatherly principle is most often understood in extremes; the middle occurs, but not as often as we would like. The father is either tough, unyielding, conservative, domineering, an authoritarian figure on a large scale, or he is playful, irresponsible, weak, a person who cannot resist, drinks or gambles, bets, casinos, the life of the party, the “eternal youth.” Or, “the father who is not there” - those who leave their family (death, divorce, illness ). Also, the father spoils his daughter to such an extent that the sense of all boundaries, values, authority is lost, the father seems to tie the daughter to himself. Or, this is a father who devalues ​​the feminine principle (femininity), and he may also be concerned only with his career, success, not be involved at all in the relationship with his daughter, be emotionally distant. Whichever of these images I turn to, one way or another serious trauma is caused because the daughter does not feel the presence of a loving and responsible father, capable of encouraging intellectual, professional, spiritual and mental development, encouraging the individual feminine principle in the daughter, her peculiarity, difference, and even from the mother. Part of this problem arises because that the father himself is emotionally traumatized, he himself has lost touch with the feminine (Anima). Either he disowns it and therefore devalues ​​it, or he may be too overwhelmed by its power, for example, like the “eternal youth” who loses the ability to act and becomes completely passive. And you know, father-daughter trauma is not just a story in itself standing woman, this is the state of our culture. Where there is a powerful patriarchal attitude that devalues ​​the feminine, reducing it to the fulfillment of roles and obligations, there is a collective trauma of the father’s suppression of the feminine in his daughter. We can trace this in our families, in family stories and family myth. This is a global problem. In this publication I want to consider the images and patterns of behavior between a father and his daughter and, therefore, the consequences in a broad sense. I will move on to the specific gradually. At the end of this series of publications, which will subtly echo the analysis of fairy tales, I will give you the opportunity to come into contact with this in practice, to live it. But, this is later, I am forming an elective on this topic. As a daughter grows up, her emotional and spiritual development largely depends on her relationship with her father. He is the first masculine/masculine figure in her life, on the basis of which she first forms a model of attitude towards her inner masculinity, and ultimately towards real men. Since he is the “Other”, i.e. different from both her and her mother, he also shapes her uniqueness and her individuality. What is this about? His attitude towards his mother and daughter will determine his attitude towards himself, his attitude towards work and success will personify his attitude towards work and success of his daughter, if the father is a loser, the daughter is likely to be timid; if the father has no boundaries for himself, no authority and discipline, the daughter will either develop strong defenses or will not feel any boundaries in herself. If the father is a “Don Juan”; “eternal son”, “daddy”, the daughter will not see a model of self-discipline, boundaries, will feel insecurity, anxiety, instability, self-doubt, shame that is transferred to herself (if the father is weak, an alcoholic), possibly frigidity and weak sexual libido .The girl creates an ideal prince, an ideal guy, an ideal man and husband, she drowns in her idealization, just not to face the reality of her relationship with her father. And also, faith in men is lost. Despotic, cold fathers are deprived of living energy, their femininity and feelings. Duty, obedience, rationality, power, success, their values, order, control, rules, bitterness, cynicism, irritability, denial of spontaneity, creativity, ridicule of it, devaluation of it, and big dreams of their daughter being successful, but not from common sense. Patriarch in classic form,.