Girls, it's time for us to talk about this. With the onset of spring, men begin a testosterone peak - a period of increased need for sex and corresponding activity. As expected, sexologists also see a peak in requests from dissatisfied men and families on the verge of divorce. Women’s attraction is activated against the backdrop of positive emotions and intimacy is a natural consequence of the interaction of two loving people. I assure you, men know this. I want to tell you an approximate set of thoughts and emotions that haunt a man against the background of his wife’s regular refusal: - she stopped loving me... then the world collapses. He no longer wants to earn money for the sake of his family and in any way improve the life of someone who doesn’t love him. - She has someone else / she wants someone else. In addition to the above-mentioned depression, jealousy, aggression and not at all constructive actions (surveillance, scenes of jealousy, scandals out of the blue) begin to haunt me - why doesn’t she want to give me pleasure / do something for me? The idea is very simple: I am her chosen one, she does my laundry, irons, cooks, washes everything, goes on diets, torments herself in the gym and with massages, helps me in business and doesn’t say that she doesn’t want to. But there’s no way to please your man, which means you’ve fallen out of love... Absolutely the same logic applies if the doctor has forbidden it. The man knows that we have 3 holes and arms. For medical reasons, arousal with orgasm and penetration may be harmful, but for what pathologies did the gynecologist prohibit using the mouth or hands? A man understands that they simply don’t want to strain for his sake. “She doesn’t care about me!” The next and most common thought. And he comes to her because her spouse, who reviewed info-gypsies and personal growth trainings, believes that attraction should be joint, but no one explained to her that the sex hormone in men is 20-30 times greater than in women. Has any psychology guru ever told you what an unsatisfied macho man feels? Sex is the same natural need of the body as food and sleep. We need to sleep every day, how do you feel if you don’t get enough sleep today, tomorrow and a couple more days? It is advisable to eat 3 times a day, I am not a nutritionist, but I represent the result of evolution. What will happen to you if you lose lunch? What if I’m on a 1000-1200 kcal diet? Now imagine that blood rushes into the groin to the newly matured sperm. The testicles only produce them, but are not intended to be released. Testosterone makes you wake up with an erection and the morning begins with a fight either with your own wife for the right to fuck her, or with an erect organ. During the day, hormones make you get excited by any provocation: rounded shapes in advertising, women in heels in thin tights and minis walk along the road, in the office colleagues exchanged sweaters for thin blouses and blouses. The brain treacherously throws up fantasies about how he would place it, where he would put his hands and how furiously he would insert it. Pictures keep popping up throughout the day, making it difficult to work productively. It's just the action of hormones!!! And attractive women walk by, they smell delicious... The lower abdomen begins to ache, the testicles ache. Male hormones are about dominance; when dissatisfied, he becomes conflicted and hot-tempered. To understand him, just try not to eat food. How long will you last? To understand how much you need: there are average statistics that say that sperm matures in 3 days, or that 80% of people belong to the average type of sexual constitution (an article about this in DoctorPiter soon) - this is about 2 -3 times a week, and if your sex is of poor quality, then there is an unpleasant aftertaste that you want to interrupt with a positive experience, but will he want to suffer again with someone who is hurt, lazy, scared, uncomfortable and in general all this dirt and vulgarity? This is where we return to the title of the article. If you refuse your husband for weeks, months, years, then how does he cope with the natural needs of the body? In order to find out how much quality sex your spouse needs to be happy, ask him in plain text! In a couple of people who have lived together for a long time, it’s normal to speak loudly.