You can read the beginning in the article The influence of parental relationships on the child’s future. Part 1 Violations in family relationships leave an imprint on the future of the child. What is this impact? One of the main reasons for the disruption of family relationships is the manifestation in one of the partners (or both spouses) of those needs that were not satisfied by their parents in childhood. Growing up, a person chooses a partner with whom it is easier for him to reproduce a situation that was unresolved in childhood, returning to his problems and conflicts. This is how a “neurotic family” arises, in which the husband and wife reproduce unplayed, unresolved situations from childhood, but do not solve them. How does the relationship between parents influence each other? An important pattern was discovered: the unconscious repetition of the model of relationships characteristic of the parental family. The psychological mechanism of this process can be represented in the form of a person reproducing not his own behavior and not the behavior of other people towards himself, but assimilation through unconscious imitation behavior of significant people in relation to each other. In other words, we often learn and demonstrate in our relationships with a partner the relationships that we saw between our parents. There are other patterns: A child learns his future marital role from a parent of the same sex. For a boy It is very important to communicate with the father, as well as to learn the father’s behavior towards the mother. For a girl, the experience of communicating with the mother and the mother’s behavior towards the father is of particular importance. If you are aware of this influence, then you can adjust your behavior as parents of your minor children , and to the grown-up children themselves. Do you notice that you are reproducing the behavior or ways of interaction of your parents? Share in the comments! Be aware of your life, become happier and give happiness to your children!💞Seek help from specialists if difficulties arise when working independently. You can sign up for a psychological consultation or a transformation game by calling +7-982-482-64- 79. You can choose a format convenient for you (in person or online). If you liked the article, put “Thank you”»