About 80% of women who are subjected to domestic violence simply have nowhere to go! Having worked in this direction for about 10 years, consulting clients, I note to myself that not all victims of domestic violence are actually victims-pre-victims. He didn’t tolerate so many classic ones! He beats her, lives on her territory, lives at her expense, and she also wears slippers for him! And he serves food in bed. I really endured this!!! But many tried to escape from such a life more than once. They returned to their parents, who told them: “I chose this one myself. So be patient! Where will you go now with your children? To me and my father?!” Sometimes a woman can return to her relatives, but the situation there is such that “what is better with such a husband than with “these two”! This one is at work all day. At least some respite from this terrible life.” Our Centers, which provide shelter for a woman with children, give the opportunity to stay there for a maximum of 90 days.” And then where should she go? It’s certainly easier to rent an apartment if you move to the periphery, but the salary there is also lower Finding another man right away who will help such a woman is also not an option. She is in such a state... that not everyone will be interested in her as a woman. There is no sparkle in the eyes! And no amount of cosmetics or a new wardrobe will help her with this! Sometimes it is old fans, friends, acquaintances who pull her out of the circle of violence, who are happy with the initial help from the social services and offer the next shoulder of support to the woman! I ask many women who have turned to me to seek support from all sides. As they say to the world one by one... We are looking for and working on any possible plans to get out of the situation. Some people (this is rare) manage to jump out quickly, others slowly. Often a woman loses hope of finding a way out of the vicious circle, because TYRANTS almost always calculate for the future whether it is possible to weave a web around a woman and cut off the remnants of her social ties. Stay at home with the children, I work! Don’t be friends with this friend - she’s bad! Don’t wear clothes like that, other men will stare at you! A good wife should always be near her husband! Why go to a high school reunion? What didn’t you see there? Your mother is evil! You said it yourself! What will you tell her??? Will she help you? Try in the initial stages, when your daughter is dating an obscene person, to rebuff the persistent groom. He will disappear into the fog faster than you think! A rapist, a jealous person, a psychological vampire does not need a mother-in-law as a protector. He needs a clean path! Without holes and twists! Rapists are cowards at heart! They love to suppress a weak (or weakened) person who has no one to call for help. 10 years ago my father supported me... (It was always more difficult with my mother...). Leave him, he is not a man... Don’t be afraid to sue him for his property. You're right! (I went through 5.5 years of trials). Defend your dissertation, I will help! (I protected her) Dad died a year after the divorce, but his words still ring in my head: “Don’t be a victim! You deserve everything!” Now I have a house, a job, my children have grown up. Thank you, Dad! I will always be grateful to you even for this year, for which you were always by my side and did not let me break.Moms, love your daughters …