It can be very difficult to make a choice and a decision. Why? As a rule, because the number of pros and cons for both options is approximately the same. And also because the number of unknowns in both options is also approximately the same. The agony of choice begins. We frantically try to calculate both options, but nothing works. I want to choose what is best, but it is impossible to see the future and this makes it not clear which will be better. But we continue to solve this “puzzle” without realizing that we are not “visionaries.” We don’t think about the fact that no matter how hard we try, we can’t look into the future. We think that we have not provided for everything enough, which means we still need to think carefully and provide for everything. And again we weigh everything and provide for it. Of course, we don’t make any choice, but at the same time we lose a lot of strength and energy in this very agony of choice. What to do? I have already written, the first thing is to understand that you cannot see the future and no intelligence is enough to calculate all the possible consequences. The second is that by not making choices, we miss opportunities. Third, give yourself the right to make mistakes. It is impossible for a person not to make mistakes. And fourth. Both the pros and cons are approximately the same. If something outweighed, the choice would be easy to make. Where there are more “for”, then we chose. Therefore, the options are equivalent and it does not matter which one to choose. Each of them is equally incomprehensible. Therefore, we choose any one and immediately receive a huge bonus - we stop wasting strength and energy on the agony of choice. It is very difficult for a person to be in a “suspended” state. Therefore, any choice is a relief. And the freed up energy can be spent more constructively. Author: Yulia Levchinskaya I invite everyone to my new YouTube channel. There is already a video about how to get rid of guilt, turning it into support, about loneliness and how to deal with it, about self-confidence, about your place in life (when you feel like “sorry that I exist”). Please subscribe, comment, share your thoughts. Your activity will inspire you to shoot more. Thank you in advance.