From the author: This article was published here: Strange question, isn’t it? Everyone can say whether they love or not love someone. Perhaps someone will say: “I love you very much,” someone will sigh, thinking that love goes somewhere irrevocably. Someone doesn’t even know what it is and is afraid to even think that this feeling will someday affect him, because there is both a permission to love and a prohibition. All these concepts come from the depths of the family. From one generation to another, and we have to do something about it, either change (transform), or get used to it and lead our further existence, because not everyone knows that in life everything is possible (and necessary!!!) change. Let's remember my mother as a child. Some people remember their kind mother, others not so much. Perhaps someone will remember that mom, all in tears, goes into another room, closes herself... and cries. From pain, from despair, from the fact that it would seem that will never change, but you have to live with it... Is it necessary??? This is a question that many people often ask themselves, their friends, and just their mothers. All the pros and cons are weighed, and everything remains the same, only a small percentage of people can step towards their destiny and change it, making themselves a truly happy person! Let's go back to the mother who is crying. When a baby sees his mother crying, he begins to feel sad along with her, trying to help, pat her on the head, or hug her. Moms, don't push your baby away. By pushing him away, you are trying to protect him from your tears, from your pain, but the baby will only feel guilty for what he does not know and does not understand. Believe me, this is much worse than if you cried on your child’s shoulder, feeling his support and trust. This way you will show him that there is another side to joy, and it’s not scary at all. This is fine. That's life. Just the way she is. Trust the baby, the world. A person is born with emotions to not only love, feel, rejoice, enjoy, but also to be sad, upset... In general, to live!!! Love, dear readers, trust. Believe me, it’s worth a lot! Ekaterina Zavarukhina