Author: Vitaly Pichugin Source: http://www.nlplife.ru/ Situation. They live together: mother, daughter, grandmother. They all educate each other, or rather, they blow their minds, they cry together, but they cannot leave for economic reasons. They have one thing in common: in consciousness they are girls, that is, not adults. At least they behave like children. Well, the youngest (she is 7 years old), as expected, yells, is capricious, demands entertainment, love, attention and understanding. The older girls (grandmother and mother) behave the same way. Everything repeats itself in life. My grandmother raised my mother alone, without a husband. The daughter gave birth to a daughter, but the husband again did not fit into the family, which is not surprising. The girls were left alone. What are they doing? Here's a picture. The grandmother is waiting at home, the mother is taking her daughter from school, it’s minus 20 outside. The daughter is yelling at the whole street - buy ice cream! Mom, frowning, remains silent, like a partisan during an interrogation. But after a while he can’t stand it and yells back - you can’t! The daughter does not remain in debt and answers - but you bought yourself ice cream and put it in your bag! Mom gives a phenomenal answer - but I can, I’m an adult, but you’re not. • Is your aunt really an adult? House dismantling continues. But now grandma is making a claim, and you bought me ice cream? You only think about yourself! The granddaughter joins in and starts yelling, she only thinks about herself, she didn’t give me any ice cream either! A hysterical mother throws ice cream at her child. All the characters run to different rooms and cry. The youngest eats away her grudge with ice cream. This is how a warm family evening begins. These girls of different ages share not only ice cream, but also candy, things, and power. They do it stupidly, childishly, hysterically. The oldest one teaches the middle one how to raise the youngest one. He accompanies his instructions with lamentations: I raised you alone, I ruined all my health, I gave the best, that’s why my personal life didn’t work out. The middle one does not remain in debt, snaps at the older one - it would be better if you didn’t give birth to me, but took care of your personal life, and takes off at the youngest one, demanding obedience, respect, submission. He accompanies his lectures to the child with complaints: because of you, I’m ruining my health at work, I have no personal life, I don’t sleep at night, I’ve ruined my nerves. What should the youngest do? • And she recently strangled a pet hamster. She probably wanted to say something to the older girls, but they are big and strong (for now), so the silent and weak hamster got it. When a girl raised by a girl raises a girl, the hamster cannot live. Well, little things: dolls’ heads were torn off, grandmother’s favorite flowers were cut, the three weakest girls at school were beaten. But the older girls don’t notice this, or rather, they see it, but don’t understand the meaning of what’s happening. • Children do not understand the meaning, they know that they feel bad and react to discomfort by crying, hysterics, complaints. They are all victims, they are all waiting for a deliverer who will never come. In the meantime, they petty shit to each other. And how will this end? I don’t know for sure, I can guess that it’s not good. Or am I a pessimist?