— I have no idea. Just when my children grow up, I will give them money for a good psychotherapist. And to be honest, I think that this is impossible. The child has his own programs, his own path, which he himself must go through. Parental - 25%, the rest is his own, with which he came into this world. The only thing I know for sure is that happy children begin with happy parents. If you want to teach your children something good, invest in your own development and solving your own problems. In many ways, your attitude towards children is your attitude towards yourself. In particular, to your inner child: - don’t love yourself - you won’t love your children - dissatisfied with yourself - you will be dissatisfied with your children - don’t accept your feminine part - more complaints about your daughter, your male part, more complaints about your son - haven’t worked through your own negative attitude towards men - you will not love your son - you will not develop a sense of self-worth and significance as a woman, you will consider your daughter to be somehow different - you will not work on your fear of death - your children will often get sick - you are demanding of yourself, you will torture your children with nagging and demands not according to your age - you will not cure your own feelings of guilt, you will always feel guilty in front of your children for the fact that you devote little time to them, do little, etc. - you will not be happy yourself - raising an eternal sacrifice in your own child - you will not deal with your desire to be needed - raise an infantile child who will not be able to take care of himself. I know people who are wonderful parents, but their children are insecure, suspicious, etc., simply because the parents have these same qualities, and not at all because that they raised them poorly or didn’t give them something. It happens that parents say: “And why are you so shy/timid/insecure,” etc. Who should a child be different from? Where can you find an example of success and self-love? I am not a child psychologist, but I will help you realize how you influence your own children, their behavior and well-being. The main value you will receive is that you will change yourself and establish a connection with your children.