The work of a psychologist: Interesting and Useful 661 Good afternoon, Dear Friends! And we continue to study the work of a psychologist and its various features, we continue to share our experience and knowledge accumulated during practice. I bring to your attention the six hundred and sixtieth article in the series! If you remember, I recently began to discuss a hypothetical case where a client told us about how aggressive, incompetent educators and teachers everywhere are now, how they humiliate children, and so on. Let's continue to analyze this case. These topics should not be supported. No matter how you look at it, our educators and teachers are still different. We do not support client splitting. And this is exactly it. Client “It is important to grab children and take them to a place where everything will be fine.” The therapist may respond to this by saying: “It’s as if there is a place where everything is just okay...” We don’t support the theme that everything is bad. Rather, it is important to explore the client's background. It may well be that if he is so “fixated” on the topic of aggression and children, then it was precisely in his childhood that there was aggression from significant others, and, most likely, we will discover that the client has a traumatic experience in the past. And here there is another nuance . After all, the client can protect his children not only from the aggression of teachers, but... And from his own aggression too. How does the client himself feel about his children? After all, the aggression of educators can only be a projection, a transfer of something of their own onto them. It is important to explore this topic too. If this is so, then you can tell the client: “By trying to protect children from the aggression of teachers, you are protecting them from your own aggression.” And what kind of aggression could this be? For example, even this client of ours could have asked us at the beginning of our work to figure out how not to be an aggressive parent. And here it may well turn out that there is nothing “criminal” in this aggression. After all, children can and do irritate their parents very much from time to time. It’s normal: “I already want to kill him.” Children are not some kind of angels (unless they are at the age of three and a half to six years). And the client, when he asks for help not to be aggressive, may have an attitude that he needs to be some kind of non-angry person, for example, a parent, ideal... This topic will be developed in subsequent articles. Do you also want to share something? Please write below in the comments! It will be important and interesting for everyone to learn something useful for their work or just for themselves! Thank you for your attention! The next, six hundred and sixty-first article in the series will be published soon, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow! Sign up for a consultation: + 7 - 9 6 5 - 3 1 7 - 5 6 - 1 2 If you liked the material, please click on “Say thanks”! In order not to miss anything interesting, subscribe to my publications! And please share, material on social networks! :)