Sometimes in a relationship you need to take a time out. Perhaps this is a harbinger of a complete outing, but at the moment this particular period of time is relevant, which you want to fill with emptiness, and your partner must respect your choice, a difficult but overdue decision. It happens that relationships are far from perfect, but everything continues to drag on, as if by inertia. It is already clear and understandable that xy is xy, and it would seem that nothing new can be discerned in the partner. But suddenly you notice that he is changing: a man who was just completely sane, with a healthy sense of humor, suddenly, for no apparent reason, begins to throw out such jokes that you doubt everything, but not yet his adequacy. Further - more, your suspicions are confirmed day after day. And it already seems that it’s time to put an end to it, and not play with a pause in a relationship that has become so unsteady and incomprehensible. Throw everything to hell, escape from the accumulated problems, opening the door wide from the stuffy reality... But it often turns out that there is simply nowhere to run - neither territorially, nor mentally, nor psychologically. Your interaction is too close, your paths are too tightly intertwined in a common, once carefully built world. Then these effective methods of leaving the compartment of discomfort will help you: a hot cup of coffee, a good TV series, a lot of goodies - but not to the point of overeating, a telephone conversation with someone with whom it is easy, going to the store for bright pleasures, reading healing books. But you never know what else you can come up with in order to slip out of the boring swamp of endless debriefings - yours and your partner's. Plunge into childhood for a while, follow your own lead, and not try out of habit to prevent all the slightest desires of a man. Especially when there are practically no desires anymore. And then, when everything calms down and the ripples on the surface of the sea of ​​feelings become light and playful, try to think everything through and understand exactly what you really need and where to move next. Have you ever had to take a time out in a relationship? Was this experience useful and timely? You can get my advice here. © Bogdanova Anzhelika, 2020. All rights reserved #anzhelikastory #blogotherapy #blogotherapy WhatsApp, Telegram 89803928667