Parents tend to worry about their children, worry about them. Parents believe that they can protect their child from failures, disappointments, tears if they do everything for their children or allow them to be almost independent (act with strict control by an adult). Such actions, not only will not help the child, they will harm him, leaving an imprint for the rest of his life. This will kill their motivation, independence, desire to develop and simply try something new. Entering adulthood life, this adult-child will not be able to make independent decisions, choose his own path, consider the various options presented to him. Teach your children to be responsible for their actions. Organize your day not only as you want, but also as it should. It is necessary to help not just because mom or dad wants it, but because this is the rule in the family: “Each family member comes to the aid of the other.” For example... Mom was tired, she was at work all day, just like dad, just like the child was at school. Why then is it only the mother who stands at the stove, prepares food, and then washes the dishes for everyone else? Maybe it’s worth setting rules! Mom and dad can help their child make crafts, play with him, talk, listen to the child’s desires and needs. And the child is in In turn, she can help with household chores. Teach your child responsibility. If he wants a pet, then all the care for it lies with the child himself. He cleans his room himself. Not because you wanted it so, but because this is his room, his things, he knows where everything is. You won’t be constantly asked “Where is my sharpener...” Everything is where you leave it!!! Try to remember where you could have put it? Think about the future of your children! It is impossible to help them by depriving them of the opportunity to act!!! You can be a support, a person who is ready to listen, answer questions, express your opinion if asked. Let your child know that you are there and believe in him!!! This will allow him to develop fully and at your own pace.