The name "gigolo" comes from the name of the hero-lover of the play "Mr. Alphonse" by Dumas the Son. In the countries of the former CIS, it is customary to call a gigolo a person who provides sexual services to women in exchange for full or partial maintenance. The material is collective, based on the stories of clients. What are the signs to use to identify a gigolo at first? 1. Alphonse is not interested in long-term courtship and is not ready to spend money on a woman (except at the minimum stage of the first acquaintance), so his task is to quickly reach the “target audience” - that is, from the many women he meets , to identify exactly those who will need sex from him and who will be willing to pay for it. Therefore, having met a woman, the gigolo begins to rapidly reduce the distance, violate her boundaries, and reduce communication to sex. For example, even before meeting, just seeing you in a photo on a dating site, the gigolo may write that he would like to give you underwear. He deliberately raises topics of sex in order to excite a woman’s imagination, her instincts and turn off logic. For example, he compliments her on her pedicure, says that it’s the first time he’s seen such beautiful fingers, and how he would like to kiss them. Already on the first date, a gigolo may ask to come to your home. 2. Alphonse skillfully flatters, but is superficial in communication: an intelligent woman may find that there is nothing to talk about with him. 3. Alphonse persistently tries to find out information about your financial situation. 4. Alphonse tries not to reveal any significant information about himself: marital status, who he works for, where he lives. He may lie about his situation, or the woman then discovers that a man at 40 still lives with his parents, that he has never had a family, that he has never worked and does not work anywhere. 5. After the first sex, the gigolo may ask you for money (even if it’s a loan); he may be asking to move in with you, and then live with you on support. Or, after a short time, he may make up a story about how he lost his job, about sick parents who need care, and ask you for help. Many women take their word for it, turn on the “rescuer” mode, and meanwhile, problems begin to grow like a snowball: either a newly-made lover needs to pay off a bank debt, or he lost money in slot machines, etc. Psychotype of gigolo. As a rule, this is a sociopath or an infantile personality. Over time, the sociopath begins to abuse the woman: intimidate, beat, force her to transfer property to him. An infantile man demonstrates dependence on a woman, lack of independence in decisions and actions, and helplessness in a situation of isolation. He promises a lot in words, builds castles in the air, but in reality he is unable to realize anything, take care of anyone, avoids taking responsibility, and looks for a mother in a woman. Be careful and love yourself! More useful information and communication in my telegram channel. I would be glad to subscribe 😉 https://t.me/burkova_psy Respect copyright in accordance with Art. 146 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation ©