Often after an unsuccessful relationship, some people can observe scenarios that destroy the very possibility of building something new. As a rule, a person is not aware of these scenarios or is only weakly aware of them. This manifests itself as: -Increased criticality towards potential partners (focus on the shortcomings or possible shortcomings of a partner, when a neutral action can be assigned a negative meaning, a negative intention) -Increased anxiety, fear of repeating what there was an unconscious search for reasons not to start a relationship - Deliberately inflated demands on potential partners, excessive idealization (as a way not to start a relationship) - Increased touchiness, the desire to throw out anger on someone At the same time, it is not realized that these emotions are usually associated with previous relationships. - Unstable self-esteem and, as a result, unmotivated jealousy in new relationships - In bodily language and behavior, there may be signals of demonstrativeness and aggression, sometimes depression, which can repel potential partners. All this, as a rule, does not contribute to the formation of new relationships. It often takes time to get rid of such problems, in some cases when the stress from the breakup was very strong, and the symptoms do not go away for a long time, individual psychological work with a specialist is required. Thus, the criterion of readiness for a new relationship is the absence of the above signs. Happiness and good luck to you and your loved ones! (With)