A rule that is important for a parent to follow so that the child grows up to be an achiever. Independence as a key aspect of education. What result do you want from a child if you have always done for them? How do you want to achieve what? would your child earn money if you wiped his nose and the same at 14 years old? INDEPENDENCE IS SUCH AN IMPORTANT THING - it is more important than feeding, drinking, and ensuring safety. How do we miss these moments in childhood, which will then allow us to raise an achiever? Those mothers who say “I’m faster than myself,” or “he’ll spill them,” “He’ll break them,” “He won’t peel the potatoes properly, but I don’t have time.” not enough!”, then such mothers win 1 battle, and we lose a huge war! Because the key aspect of education is independence, this is the key to a child’s successful life in the future. When we allow ourselves to let time stand still while the child peels these potatoes with a knife, while the child himself, splashing everything around, washes these dishes, while the child himself Having stained the entire kitchen in flour - making these Easter cakes, then we thus focus on developing the child’s abilities, and the more abilities, the more successful a person is in life! You can even keep statistics. How much has my child done by HIMSELF today?!!! How often do situations occur when a child says: “Mom, I do it myself!” And the mother says: “Let me do it quickly myself!” - And thus independence is suppressed! The more times you allow a child to do something (even if not correctly, even with mistakes), the greater the chance that you will have a well-fed old age! And the loser, whose snot you wiped at the age of 7 - will not feed you in old age. He won’t have anything to feed himself with. And then – more. Then this begins: - Parents do not allow the child to study independently at school, they go to school so that he knows, they do homework with him. This is fundamentally wrong. In our society, the school was created so that the child develops cognitive activity. Just do not confuse independence and connivance - these are different things! Control should be invisible. Unnoticed to monitor what he does, how he does it, that is, trust, but check. And then the child has the illusion that he is the master of his life! That he controls her, but at the same time you correct and direct her! So: the first thing that is necessary when raising a successful child is independence.