The essence of life lies in competition on a field of two colors: a white stripe, a black stripe. Of course, everyone has the same final of the Big Game ----------, but I want to reach the final not only as the first, but rather as the winner of many competitions - small games. At the same time, you can live both on the side of the white and on the side of the black forces, moreover, you can live and fight under completely different flags. The specificity of being depends mainly on the special position you occupy in this field. If a threat hangs over your comfortable existence and life has shown you a “yellow card,” then naturally you “need” to activate your forces to maneuver. At the same time, attacks towards some other figure, less significant for you, can be left without any consequences, or you can respond to the threat with a counterattack on the same insignificant figure, and let the figure suffer. And without noticing it yourself, you turn into a kind of arbiter of destinies, forgetting that in exactly the same way you find yourself in another more professional Game, considering yourself a king, being led to a pawn and losing your entire kingdom. It is possible, for example, as a result of an intense struggle with superior combat forces, territory and resources, yet suffer defeat. It’s not a matter of numbers or combat anger, but of game strategy, the ability to recognize the game in the Game, understand the rules, and sometimes within the rules, learn to show tricks that will ultimately achieve the goal. Sleight of hand and not some kind of fraud. Particular excitement appears in the event of a stalemate - being trapped and hopeless. What do you usually do in such situations? Emotions, and sometimes passion to the point of hysteria, take over, which is also not very useful in this situation. Who will help? A rational mind and the ability to get out of a situation, to become more than it, that is, to look at it from the outside, study and find out by what rules this fairy tale was built and what steps remained unused by me. Knowing which cards have already been released, it is not difficult to guess what kind of trump cards are hidden in the deck. Another important point: knowing and understanding the rules, at least of the game in which you yourself are participating, you can always, being in the rank of a pawn, reach the queen. Despite these conventions and all kinds of rules, the creative essence of the game does not suffer from this at all. On the contrary, all those unique principles on the basis of which the struggle develops only expand the combat capabilities for all fighting parties. Many can say that they do not play any games, but live a quiet life and that’s all. That's it. The fact is that, of course, you can not participate in games, but find yourself in the same situations over and over again, not understanding where and how they appear and, what is most incomprehensible, how to behave in it? It’s not the name, it’s just that there are people who often stick to a not entirely successful scenario, give in to criticism, and not because they know or can do a lot, but are simply too lazy to bust their ass and feel like the hero of their childhood fantasies, even for a moment. The usual words of such representatives of planet earth sound something like this: “This is empty and useless, a waste of time,” which at the same time causes harmful tension in the muscles, nervous system and internal anxiety. We will not deny or argue; we will only agree that any excess, no matter how it manifests itself, is certainly harmful. Risk is of course a noble cause, but whenever possible it is necessary to play according to the law of “tithe”. When the process is established and you clearly understand where you are moving and what rules you are guided by, it is quite acceptable to use 10% of your internal and external resources, that is, we are not talking about a sluggish current existence and this percentage is not at all the energy that we spend every day - 10 % is the amount of energy that can be supplied and, in the event of force majeure, given (invested, paid for a lesson) to an opponent, while receiving feedback (where mistakes were made, possible miscalculations) with minimal losses, mobilize forces and strike back. For frequent.