From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert of television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, NLP master, best master, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia. In general, there is nothing special about this wish. Therefore, I, as a practicing sexologist and family psychologist, immediately it says: I’ll move on to the topic of my work on the sexual problem of anorgasmia and frigidity in the aspect of arousal. The first memory of my client from Moscow took us back to when she was 16 years old. Then the girl met a guy on the Internet through one social dating network and a virtual romance began. which lasted about a year. There was no real meeting, because the guy was a foreigner. But there was Skype, where everyone showed off their sexual skills and talents. The girl showed her naked breasts, and the guy showed himself in all its glory. Further, the relationship came to an end. The client was left with a state of “offense.” She said: “I realized that he was a “flat” person, and he was not interested in anything except sex. And for a long time I worried that he did not appreciate my inner state.” But life goes on, after reflection we eliminated unnecessary dependence and moved on. Then there was a second similar relationship, also in a virtual version, which grew over time into something more: the couple met and a real romance arose, which continues to this day. The girl was still uncomfortable for some time about the previous story in front of herself (since her current boyfriend is not aware of that situation). She felt some kind of dirt in all this, and as the client said: disgusting. Now we have fully analyzed her problematic condition. And I, as a sexologist and family psychologist, filled the girl with self-love. After that, I remembered the second episode, when my father’s friend came to visit, how the client said: “some kind of gopnik,” who left behind not only an unpleasant general impression on everyone, but also on the girl herself personally. At that time, she was about 15 years old. The client doesn’t remember the specifics, but there is a memory of some dirty jokes and sarcasm addressed to her. We have now eliminated this problematic condition. And she pulled out a piece of lard. Instead, the client gained self-acceptance. Then came the memories about my grandparents. But my grandfather was not my own, although that’s not the point. Once, again, in adolescence, my client from Moscow caught him doing an unpleasant (according to the girl) activity. Grandfather was masturbating, and he did it somehow sluggishly and disgustingly, and the girl saw this situation through the slightly open door. This also left its mark on the client’s psyche in the form that: the naked genitals of a man look somehow not very attractive, just like the masturbating man himself. Now we have removed this episode and replayed the visuals: as if the girl walked past a closed door and did not see anything. Now she has filled herself with vitality and, for some reason, athleticism. Next we come to the topic of constriction in sex - one of the reasons for her sexual female problem of anorgasmia and frigidity. Here I, as a psychologist-sexologist, worked with the topic: being proactive in sex. We have eliminated unnecessary tension and frustration over trifles, and added more composure and self-control. Then, in terms of the general problem state, we additionally worked on the topic of self-confidence (the classic work of all sexologists,.