From the author: Article for the CPSU (Club of Fans of Happy Family) “Men and women are different from each other. Women are made up of front and back, men are made up of top and bottom. What the bottom wants is clear to everyone, but the top wants to eat and brag all the time...” - a quote from one of my Teachers, a wonderful person, a man, a psychologist, a psychotherapist, a hereditary psychiatrist. We are different, and therefore we choose according to different criteria. Schematically, they can be depicted as follows: Men are primarily attracted to women by their appearance. Women - intelligence. No? Or are you attracted to stupidly laughing, stupidly humming alenodelons? In general, there are exceptions, of course, but this diagram is about the norm. That is, the reason to stop, become interested, and continue communication is a woman’s appearance and a man’s intelligence. But this is not yet a reason to draw conclusions, like: “This is my soulmate.” According to some unknown statistics, there may be about a hundred thousand of outwardly attractive women and intellectually attractive men for him, for her!!! Far from half, right? And there is absolutely no reason for women to jump into bed if we are talking about choosing a partner for life, and not for sex. At this first stage, there can be many, many partners. The most common mistake that women make at this level is to limit themselves to one thing, build a fantasy life up to their grandchildren, enter into an intimate relationship,... a year later – divorce and a maiden name. Further. You communicate for some time, get to know him and her better and highlight other advantages. Men celebrate femininity and tenderness. Women - a feeling of security, that he can be trusted, she likes his actions. And according to the same statistics, there are about a thousand of them. Not half either, right? In conditions of security and trust, a woman opens up more and more, presenting her inner world to a man and thereby awakens in him interest in her personality. Your hobbies, preferences, achievements, etc. - He likes it all. A woman at this level already likes his appearance - plump, bald, a meter in a hat - for her he is the best, and that’s all! I really remember one episode from my youth. I'm 16, 17 years old, and I'm at the wedding of one of my many cousins. One of his friends invites me. The guy’s face is covered with either acne scars or pockmarks, and my first impression is “phew!” When he spoke, I fell into a certain state that is difficult for me to describe even now. I didn't fall in love, not at all! Maybe this was a meeting of “Me and You”? Whatever it was, it was then that I realized that the main thing is hidden behind the appearance. I stopped seeing his pockmarks. At this level there may be about a hundred women who attract men with their appearance, femininity, and intelligence. And there are just as many men who attract women with their intelligence, masculinity, and appearance. And this is not half yet either! It would be nice to reach the last level - spiritual content, what is it, her Soul? What's there? What are your aspirations? Wow! Here is the ideal partner)))!!! And there are several of them, and since we do not go through all the previous thousands, but only a few of them, this is how we meet this notorious half. Well? Difficult and time-consuming? As quickly as possible and without problems - look at the divorce statistics! More on the topic: https://www.b17.ru/article/122263/https://www.b17.ru/article/122316/