It is difficult to understand what respect for a man is. “Not all men can and should be respected” Firstly, a man is created by a woman. And if there is a man next to you whom you “cannot respect”, then this is also your responsibility. Secondly, initially we are all parts of God. And me, and my husband, and our children, and the saleswoman, and the postman, and even the homeless person at the station. We are all originally pure and have the same qualities as God. It’s just that we are drops, and he is the ocean. Thirdly, we all know that any “I can’t” is, first of all, “I don’t want.” It’s easier to say that a loved one is not worthy of respect than to learn to respect him. Respect begins with acceptance. I, as a woman, must COMPLETELY accept my husband for who he is. We hear about this often, but how often do we do it? After all, it is so difficult to accept it completely: - With all its shortcomings. - With all his family and friends. - With his living conditions (apartment or lack thereof, large or small salary, etc.) - With all his hobbies and interests. - With all his views on life. You're always waiting for him to change. He will begin to earn more, will stop depending on the opinions of his mother or friends, will finally begin to think about God..... It is so difficult to accept that he WILL NOT CHANGE. But only then is respect possible. When I look at my husband and tell him, “Yes.” Completely, without exception, I say “Yes” to him and everything connected with him. This is humility. Acceptance that he will FOREVER remain the same as he is now. There is a good saying on this topic: “When a man gets married, he asks for only one thing - “Let her remain like this forever.” But she is changing. When a woman gets married, she hopes that he will change. But he doesn’t change.” This is nature – and we cannot argue with it. A woman is changeable, like the weather, like the wind, like a feather. Her mood, thoughts, and views change. The man is stable, like a wall, like a rock, like a huge locomotive. He adheres to the same views all his life. When we ask him to change, we are actually asking him to become a woman. Change your nature, rearrange your molecular connections and turn from granite into plasticine. “Having respect for my husband does not change anything in my life.” Based on the Vedic concept, a man is the head. This means that the well-being of the whole family depends on what he does and how he does it. And it is immediately clarified that the woman is the neck. And she turns her head. She chooses where the head looks and what it creates. This role is very important - if you turn in the wrong direction, you might end up in a barn instead of a flower garden. And if you “turn your head back and forth,” you may not get anywhere, and you’ll also get seasick. If a man is a car, then a woman’s energy is fuel. If we don't refuel the car, it won't go. In addition, it is very important what we fill it with. It can be diluted and of poor quality. And then the ride will be bad and it will break down quickly. Or you can be good - which will give you more strength and fewer problems. Our attitude towards our husband is his fuel. And the best thing of all is respect. When a wife respects her husband, their life is transformed: - Everyone around him automatically begins to respect him. - He is offered a good job or cooperation. - Good friends appear who help in difficult times. - Money comes into the family more easily - and in larger quantities. And this happens by itself. This is something that a woman can really change in her family life. This is the very way to influence your husband and his earnings. Start respecting him. “I can do without him!” The idea of ​​independence and self-sufficiency is so popular now. Women strive to make a career, do not go on maternity leave so as not to lose their jobs, and try to earn more than their husbands. Moreover, parents of girls strive with all their might to give them a “proper education.” It seems to them that having received a good profession, their daughter will be happy. She will be able to provide for herself, otherwise you never know. And indeed, “you never know” happens more and more often. Families break up, girls are left with children in their arms - and now.