I have no doubt that you know who is perfect for you as a life partner. That's not the problem. And if none of them suits you, this means that the one to whom you are ready to give your hand and heart is simply not available to you. Not available yet. But it is in your power to make your dream come true. Choosing a woman for marriage is one of the most important choices in your life and therefore you need to approach it with special care. You have the right to count on the best option - on what is with you The ideal woman will walk next to you through life. Compromises are not appropriate here. Then you will regret. And in order not to regret, you need to understand that nothing comes for free, especially since all the best things are expensive. I suggest you make an honest exchange - exchange the best woman for you for the best version of your man. And if this has not happened yet, then the whole point is that you are not yet the best version of yourself, although you intuitively know that it exists within you. How to become the best version of yourself and make an honest exchange for the best woman in the world? What needs to be done for this? First of all, understand what a woman wants. Understand what she wants and give it to her. It's simple. And it’s not easy. Let’s start from afar so as not to miss anything. What does a modern woman expect from her man, her future husband? I wrote about this here. Who do people marry nowadays? Let me quote lines from this publication. Both today and 100,000 years ago, in a primitive communal herd, a woman chose a strong man as her husband. The only difference is that 100,000 years ago it was a physically strong male, who gave birth to genetically strong offspring for survival, and knew how to protect and get food better than others. Today, this strong man has transformed into a socially adapted man. This is not necessarily a successful businessman, official, leader, politician. He can be a teacher, doctor, engineer, plumber, apartment repairman, or just a worker. Today, a woman chooses a man who has adapted well to society as her husband. He is able to earn enough money, provide housing for his family, protect him, solve any family problems, create deep contacts with people, and maintain effective communications. They talk about such people - they solve any issues, he has “his” people everywhere, and he is a respected person in society. Often such men have a high social status, but not necessarily. A man’s high social status is a confirmation of his high ability to adapt in society and achieve a certain success. Such men have high emotional intelligence and this creates that necessary additional set of factors that allows you to make an honest exchange and get that very desired and unique woman as your wife. Relatively There are ambiguous interpretations of emotional intelligence. Its understanding has different colors among different authors. I will not go into details. I will simply give a definition of the pioneers of the discovery of emotional intelligence. The concept of emotional intelligence was introduced by Peter Steyer and Jack Mayer in 1990. Unlike the usual understanding of intelligence (IQ), it is the ability to correctly interpret the situation and influence it, intuitively grasp what other people want and need, know their strengths and weaknesses, not give in to stress and be charming. In a practical sense, EQ is “common sense.” In my understanding, emotional intelligence is, first of all: the ability to test well the objectively existing reality called the world in which we live and of which we ourselves are a part, and based on this make correct assessments of what is happening , correctly evaluate yourself and, on this basis, make the right decisions on your own. In general, this is a rational platform of thinking, it opens the way to understanding oneself, one’s emotions, thoughts, aspirations, behavior. Understanding oneself leads to understanding the importance of emotions in everyone’s life, and especially in