How exactly do I want to raise my child? And how do I actually raise my child? Do I do this by shouting or by constant threats, or can we agree to cooperate? When do we let the child know what your desire is, what my desire is, and how we can look at it from the outside and make the process of life understandable and joyful! Education is life itself, because as we go through life through many trials or solve problems, we begin to understand what tool I use and what result it leads to. These tools: pressure, coercion, screaming and blackmail? And then what image do I carry as a parent? What is education for me, that little man who is the only one entrusted to me by fate. 1st basis: Respect and understanding Let's understand the concept - “What is education? And who is standing in front of us?” And if we understand that education is really feeding the spirit, then in front of us is not just our child, to whom we make comments every now and then (Example: AAAA, a lot of time has already been spent, I’m because you...... I don’t go there, I don’t do it,... but as long as it’s possible... when you grow up... when you become a person...), and when we understand that there is a soul in front of us!!! And then we will not allow ourselves to shout and humiliate. Do you understand? We will not allow this soul to be polluted, and it is important to understand! (Leo Tolstoy wrote about this and all classical literature writes about this) that children are purity - this is color, and the task of a parent is to accompany the child through life - to reveal all the best qualities in him and preserve those jewels with which he came to us, so respect and understanding of this process is important. Respect is the basis of upbringing and interaction with a child, because behind this lies the value of childhood. Because every adult, no matter how old he is, he remembers his childhood and very often we return to our childhood when we encounter difficulties (for example, with some problems at work or with the whims of our children), every time we find ourselves in certain traumatic situations that WE EXPERIENCED IN CHILDHOOD. Therefore, a parent is an artist who can help recreate this image and sculpt the beautiful result that comes out. Write in the comments: what negotiator tools do you use in raising your children?