From the author: Published on the website True love does not need words! When you hear such a phrase, you involuntarily imagine a couple in love, of a young age, with “burning” eyes, which are vying with embarrassment and blushing , they utter love words for the first time... No matter how naive and relaxed this picture is, this statement is not filled with common sense. Yes, romantic of course! But how long will such a union last and can it even develop? Of course, at the stage of falling in love, when the object of love seems unattainable and beautiful and sexual attraction dominates, this will be enough to stay together. But even the most fabulous nights end, if, leaving bed, you have nothing to talk about with your once dearly loved person, then the forecasts for long-term family happiness are very doubtful. Conversation is just as important for relationships as sex life. Often, it is the ability to communicate with each other that is the decisive factor that shows whether a family union can be long, prosperous and trusting. Often, failures in conversation between a man and a woman are due to simple ignorance of each other’s needs. Since the communication needs of men and women are different, it is not surprising that couples have difficulty adjusting to married life. Since you are holding this magazine in your hands, I would venture to assume that you are a woman. Consequently, you know your needs (well, at least, it would be logical!) I will lift the veil of secrecy on the nuances of male psychology, and you must take these features into account when communicating with your loved one. I foresee questions arising: “Why a woman again?”; “Why should we?”; “What will men do, etc.?” I answer: Because women are stronger! Every nurse will confirm that many more men faint when blood is drawn, no matter that they have managed to spread the idea that they are the hardier sex. The female sex is wiser (thanks to Mother Nature, I tried!) This has been the case for a long time, and no one thinks to argue with it. Because a woman occupies a dominant position in family life and is responsible for the home. The list could go on for quite a long time (this is a topic for a separate article!), but we are now talking about how to find a common language with your loved one. Or rather, about how you should behave in order for the conversation to develop. The most important thing to start with: Give warmth! Don’t be shy to express your love, let it manifest itself in everything, in praise, approval, support, don’t skimp on compliments, the stronger sex needs them no less than you and me. In my opinion, it doesn’t cost anything to say once again: “I’m so happy that I have you!”; “You are the best, honey!” this will cheer up not only the man, but also you. Praise your significant other for actions that you like, do not ignore them. By doing so, you will enhance the positive aspects of your relationship. Learn to listen! Any interlocutor will be pleased when they are allowed to finish their thoughts and then express their point of view. If it becomes difficult, try biting your tongue. Yes, exactly, in the literal sense, it helps! This is how you give yourself a signal to pacify the desire to interrupt your partner. Try the ability to listen - 90% of successful communication. Prioritize dialogue! You may have a better understanding of violets, but this does not mean that your spouse cannot have his own opinion on this matter. Free conversation - takes place with the participation of both partners, equally exchanging opinions. And long, tedious lectures will not add charm to you; they can only tire the man you love and turn a conversation into serving duty for him. Women have an unspoken rule about sharing their problems. They feel the need to talk about their troubles. Overwhelmed by emotions, a woman finds relief in speaking out and receiving sympathy. Such communication is good only for those who “speak the same language” with you, i.e. with a woman, because, in general, she thinks alike, but a man does not, they, as a rule,.