In accordance with Adler’s psychoanalytic concept, when a person is born and comes into the world of the family, and in the next 7–9 years is in this world, based on the experience of being In the first years of one’s life in a family, a person’s personality begins to form. Speaking figuratively, the child develops a “personal foundation”, on the basis of which the entire personality of a person begins to be built in the future. And those programs (decisions) that a person forms as a result of the experience of being in his family in the first years of life, he automatically transfers to life (the world) in general. In the subsequent process of one’s life, these decisions have one of the main influences on a person’s perception of most life events, of himself, of the people around him, etc. According to Adler, a person, from his experience of being in his family in the first years of life, makes 4 basic decisions: The first basic decision with an answer to the question that a person poses to himself: “What is life (the world)?”, and at his own expense own life experience consciously or unconsciously responds to it. And here there are two possible answers: a) “Life is something beautiful, interesting and safe.” By going into adulthood with such a decision, such a person has a greater chance of becoming successful in life (the principle works here: “as you treat the world, so the world treats you”). b) “Life is danger.” Such a decision is formed on the basis of negative personal experience gained in the family (for example, frequent and intense moral and physical aggression, both between family members and towards the child). Coming into adulthood with such a negative view of the world, the personality of such a person will unconsciously experience fear of life or aggression towards it. This can subsequently be expressed in a person’s desire to escape from this life in one way or another (alcohol, drugs, illness, work, virtual reality, etc.), or in the manifestation of aggression towards life (antisocial behavior, “Napoleon complex” " etc.). Such people, due to their negative thinking, can experience intense negative emotions in life in the form of fears, grievances with all the ensuing negative consequences for themselves and others (physical illnesses, problems in relationships with other people, society, themselves, etc.) . The second basic decision is related to the answer to the question: “Who am I?” And again, due to his own experience from the family, a person makes a decision (program): a) “I am a hero.” Such a decision is formed due to the positive experience in relation to oneself taken from the family. Parents play a big role in positive self-perception with their positive attitudes: “You are great!”, “You are significant!”, “You are loved!”, “You can do it!” etc. By entering adulthood with a positive self-image, such a person has a greater chance of becoming more successful in life. b) “I am a victim!” Such a decision is formed in a person’s personality in his first years of life and on the basis of negative experiences in the family due to moral or physical aggression from parents. Going into adulthood with such a negative idea, a person will experience many negative feelings towards himself (“inferiority complex”), which can manifest itself in an unconscious decision to run away from life in one way or another (see above). An “inferiority complex” can also lead to “overcompensated behavior,” expressed in the desire to prove to the world that “I am good, strong, brave, smart, etc.” An example would be the same “Napoleon complex”, “hooligan complex” (such people can be successful in politics and business). The third basic decision that a person makes from the experience of the first years of life in a family is related to the answer to the question: “Who is woman?" And again, due to interaction with the mother in the family, 2 options for programs (solutions) are possible: a) “A woman is a good, safe, loving phenomenon.”!