I see what I want. When a person has firmly decided to change the situation or change himself, he finds different opportunities and a desire to look at the problem from different angles. Psychologists help solve a person’s problem by looking at it from the outside, with different eyes or something, offering different options. And those who just want to shift the responsibility for solving the problem to another person do not see simple things. Does not see solutions, conclusions and prospects. Simply, he doesn’t see anything or anyone around him. At some point he begins to consider himself an unhappy person. This parable shows us well - everyone sees what they want to see. One day, late in the evening, two boys were sitting on the seashore. They sit and look at the water, at the sky, at everything around. “What a beautiful sea!” one boy said with admiration. “What’s beautiful about it?” asked the second. Stars, moon and darkness. - Don’t you see that these are not just stars?! This is a scattering of precious stones that shimmer in different colors and shine. How nice it is to look at the calm surface of the sea, where the moon is reflected. - Nothing beautiful. Water and water. - What do you see there, beyond the horizon? It seems to me there is infinity. A lot of new and interesting things. - Nothing special. A thin line where the sky connects with the sea. - And the mountains? What do mountains look like? - Mountains are huge rocks. Without life and reason. - Don’t you see their power, strength and greatness? There is some kind of secret hidden in them. - Stop talking. Go home. Boring. - I had such a good time! How much in our lives depends on how we look at things, people, situations, problems, and the world in general. People who see this positively, in bright colors, with love and a good mood, succeed in many things in life, develop successful relationships with people. People who do not see the big in the small, do not know how to rejoice and appreciate, often consider themselves unhappy people, complain and grumble. It would seem that, having a lot for happiness, a person never became happy. I still didn’t understand that he had the most precious thing that should be valued. In pursuit of something better and alien, a person forgets to see what is nearby. There are people who ask the question: “Why does someone have everything, but I don’t?” At this time, they notice the successes, joys and benefits of another, completely forgetting about themselves and what surrounds them. I just want to say it again. Happiness is near! Look around! Smile! And hug!