An aggressive “no” to all suggestions from a 3-year-old child. How to achieve the expected behavior? Today we will talk about a very interesting age - the age of 3 year olds. About how to react to an aggressive “no”, how to achieve the expected behavior. A child of three years of age begins to show independence in everything. You often hear from him “I myself.” You watch him as he tries to cope with many life tasks. This is great. It is at this age that the transition from early childhood to preschool occurs. But It is often at this age that the baby uses the word “no.” and it’s difficult for parents to understand that a child who really loved to go for walks, now if his mom or dad starts asking him to get dressed and go for a walk, he furrows his eyebrows and answers, “No, I won’t go,” and so on in almost everything. Lev Semenovich Vygotsky, a Soviet psychologist, in his works identified seven symptoms of the three-year crisis. The very first one we are talking about today is Negativism. Negativism is a negative reaction associated with one person's attitude towards another person. A child does not do something just because a certain adult suggested it to him. Negativism is selective: the child ignores the demands of one family member or one teacher, but is quite obedient with others. The main motive for action is to do the opposite, that is, the exact opposite of what he was told. The reasons for such negativism are that the child begins to realize that he is independent, to be aware of exercising his will. What to do? after all, not every parent is able to withstand this hail of words NO. The first and most important rule is to hear and listen to your baby and remember that right now independence is manifesting itself. Now it is very important to support him. If your baby refuses to eat and shouts to you No, the easiest thing is to sit him down him at the table, shout and, excuse me, shove food into his mouth. Or it can be done differently, the main thing in this matter is the patience and calmness of the mother. Remember the film Gentlemen of Fortune, a very significant moment in it when the teacher complains that the children do not eat well ,Leonov came out of the situation very creatively. Listen to this excerpt. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V07fQajbi2w. And what does it have to do with it, if we, as parents, activate our creative abilities in education, our children will be interested in us, and it will be easier for us. And the main thing to remember is that this is a stage of development that will be formed and your baby will successfully move to the next stage.