Have you found a compromise and are you happy? In vain! This is the beginning of the end...⠀Why? I explained it in detail in this article. Today I’m analyzing the topic using the example of the series “Why Women Kill.” 2 couples. One chose compromise, the other chose cooperation. Beth Ann and Robert ⠀Once they “agreed” not to mention the death of their only daughter and live as if she had never existed. They came to a compromise and began to PLAY roles in their seemingly ideal family.⠀He continued to be the breadwinner, she continued to be a happy housewife.⠀BUT! The problem has NOT gone away: they just... stopped TALKING about it. Neither one nor the other lived through the loss to the end. We could NOT become support and support for each other. This always happens when there is a problem, but they are SILENT about it.⠀ As a result, Rob, under the guise of work, constantly walked to the left in search of new sensations. And Beth Ann began to hate her seclusion, her husband’s coldness and the role of an ideal wife/⠀Was anyone truly happy in this situation? NO!⠀Simon and Carl⠀A couple where the husband turned out to be gay, and the wife had an affair with an 18-year-old guy.⠀They could have come to a compromise and created the illusion of a prosperous family, as in the case of Beth Ann and Rob.⠀But this the family chose cooperation.⠀How it was different: 1. Through an open dialogue, they honestly expressed their positions and attitude towards what was happening in their partner’s life. Both laid all their cards on the table and managed to find a situation in which each would win.2. With sincerity, Simon did not mince words when she scolded her husband and his lover. And Karl, in turn, heartily mocked his wife’s secret romance. And just as sincerely, each of them defended the interests and secrets of the other before the public.3. With the solution “Both for you and for me” They did NOT pretend to be a team, but REALLY were one. We managed to find a solution that took into account the interests of both. And paradoxically, they retained care and love in their relationship. IMPORTANT! Try to read this phrase and understand it: Compromise is born from FEAR - cooperation is based on LOVE. You can learn cooperation at the Psychological Safety Cushion training. Login - donation. Or come to the master class “Don’t blow your mind"