If partners live together not for three Mondays, but, for example, for ten years, then according to certain laws of cross-pollination of “mental” habits, many actions of a man and a woman resemble a game of ping pong. In most cases, a woman who is leaving an abusive, traumatic relationship carefully describes all the actions of her ex. A woman either keeps silent about her actions during this period or does not see them. There are rare cases when conscious, educated, well-mannered and respectable people have a partner who is an absolute monster in all areas of her personal manifestation. Usually in partners there are many characteristics of a person that for some reason he suppresses in himself, sometimes he fights hard with it and/or simply does not notice. Therefore, after leaving an abusive relationship, it is important to analyze not your partner, he certainly will not change or explore your life together. It is best to reconsider how you manifest yourself in relationships. Why did the whole barrage of devaluation and sarcasm fall on you? Why did you attract an insecure and weak partner into your life, who, with the help of abusive tricks, is trying to lower you to his level of wrongness and imperfection? Why did you take so long? kept such a person close to you, allowing you to violate your psychological and perhaps even physical boundaries? After answering all these questions, you will see your Alter Ego. And what your alternate personality manifestation will be will explain many things that happen to you in life. For example, your partner ridiculed you for being greedy and lazy. Essentially the same traits exist in his character, and he fights them through constant criticism of you. But you, having taken a closer look at your behavior, understand that you have these traits. How you explain the presence and necessity of these traits for you is your attitude towards your Alter Ego. For example, you will agree that you are lazy - you need this for a reboot, for an important state of indifference to external appearances and an emphasis on spiritual thoughts. For example, you will accept your greed and acknowledge your fear of your own financial future. Consent is not always defeat, sometimes it is wisdom and clarity of thought. For many people, there comes a time when the desire for change outweighs the desire to remain alone. Peace comes in different forms. From deep apathy and despondency to a blissful state of satisfaction and harmony with themselves and the world around them. People who have gone through abuse, received various types of trauma and stress, and faced with their Alter Ego can get the desired internal state through working with a professional psychologist. Sign up for a consultation at Viber, WhatsApp 89271287007psychologist, psychosomatics specialist Yakovenko Galina.