The long-awaited and promised end of the world is coming - December 21, 2012. Oddly enough, this is the time that can greatly strengthen relationships and take them to a new level. It is in these moments, when the words “ending”, “end”, “stop”, “loss”, “how to prepare?” are heard, that the true value of the relationships that we have arises. Yes, most of us don’t believe it and don’t take it seriously, someone planned meetings for December 22, buying gifts for December 25, and a wedding for 2013. You know, I didn’t stock up on candles either (as they promise there won’t be any light), but thoughts about the possible end of everything that I have – IS! I think about my husband, who sits sternly looking at his monitor and decides some issues at work, I think about my daughter who went to play tennis, I think about my friend who is about to give birth... I think about what if THIS happens , and I won’t be able, or won’t have time, to say something important. In order to prevent fears from simply “hanging” in your head, I suggest doing a simple action that will calm you down and give you a feeling of tenderness and joy for your life will develop and strengthen relationships. What to do? To begin with, please take your ambitions and egocentrism, in fact, what allows us to be offended, demand and be dissatisfied, and correlate them with the size of the entire Universe as a whole, and its prescribed “scenario”. Don’t you think that what you are thinking about is not very “big” against the background of the upcoming event? Have you thought about it? Good! Then, when sobriety of mind has slightly prevailed over the machinations of the “worm” inside, I suggest you spend 10 minutes of your time, no more, on remembering the most striking events associated with your Partner, which caused you tenderness, joy, a feeling of happiness and the thought “how great it is that He or She is nearby.” What comes immediately - write it down! Now savor it. And now - “live again.” Well, now - write or present these words and your feelings to your loved one in the format that you are ready for (a postcard, SMS, a couple of slides, a video recording... etc.). Thank God that there are enough gadgets to capture your touching memories on some kind of digital media. 21.12 – hand it over! One of my examples. To my husband: “Once, when you and I were discussing my birthday, I didn’t know what to do and how to spend my anniversary in such a way that it would be meaningful and “fateful” for me. The riddle is not easy). You made the decision for me in a split second. And he suggested...this! You know, not one man has ever done this for me. It was so important and inspiring for me that I simply cannot say - thank you! Thank you for conquering Goverla! To my daughter: “The other day you covered me with your new blanket that you brought from your trip. I know how you treat your things and don’t often give them to others. But here you took such good care of me. It was very nice. I'm glad I have you. And so on. Friends, little things determine our life, no matter when it ends! Write in the comments what anyone remembered, this is our common baggage of happiness and joy and the basis of our family!