From the author: “Marriage announcement! What a last century! “,” you say. But somehow you need to introduce yourself on a dating site... What can help? Let's experiment! Practical task 1. For everyone who wants to get to know themselves better, even if you are in a great relationship and don't plan to change anything. In the ad you show your uniqueness, your special features. Presentation of you: what you are like, your highlight. Let’s say what I came up with about the lady, the psychotherapist. The image is not copied from itself! Although...)))“Emotionally receptive, attentive, beautiful blonde. She has two higher educations, is successful at work, but is not fixated on it, loves sex so much that if she has a headache, she takes ketorolac and with a smile answers: “of course, I passionately want to, my dear!” After all, she is also a doctor and knows which pill to take and when and will save her loved one for a long life. Has a great sense of humor. Energetic and soft at the same time!” An almost perfect portrait came out))) Practical task 2. Now, look in the mirror and write down one of your bad qualities that you see in the mirror. Don't write long sentences. One, two words. For example, “picky about choosing friends” and then one more, until your sheet is filled with many qualities that you are not proud of. For example: - grumpy - hot-tempered - capricious - her own main authority - sleeps until I wake up - demanding in sex - I hate surprises If you can't accept your traits that you perceive as negative, you can discuss what you can do about changing or accepting them with your psychologist. I believe we all understand that with any self-presentation, we are all faced with our own assessment of ourselves. What we see as positive in ourselves, what we evaluate as negative qualities. We have no intention of finding a partner who will focus only on the positive. We need someone who is ready to accept us as we are now. With our problematic traits, complexes, so that “our cockroaches in our heads can become friends” So, after the work done, we proceed to the last exercise! Practical task 3. Now it’s time to write a real marriage announcement! Use words from both lists: “An independent, intelligent beauty - blonde, picky and grumpy in choosing friends for conversations and spending time together, looking for a man who can be loved first with the brain, inventive and sexually liberated. To torment him with periodic changes: either with his own capricious decisions, or with expectations from him of courageous persistence in relation to her soft, emotionally sensitive nature.” Of course, the article was not written too seriously, but who knows, perhaps you will be able to discover something for yourself even in in a comic manner of completing tasks))) I will be glad to see your comments and findings that you want to share! Psychologist, psychotherapist, Svetlana Korotina, Website: https://psiholog.clubEmail. email: [email protected] ;Mob. tel.: +7(916)16-55-604