From the author: Simple rules of conduct in a conflict between loved ones How to quarrel WRONG? Conflicts, quarrels and arguments in a couple are inevitable, and it is very important to behave in them so that it does not cause excruciating pain or shame later, but in the end the right solution was found, comfortable for BOTH. Here are a few important rules - they are not complicated, but by accustoming yourself to using them, you will end up with a stronger and healthier relationship. Actually, we are talking about relationships of any kind, not just marital ones. So☝🏽🔻no need to pretend😔! If there’s a stone in your bosom, don’t feign consent🗿The stone will remain that way, but you’ll get it anyway, sooner or later.🔻the option of “playing the silent game” is very bad and we love it very much 😶 it’s bad for both the one who is silent and the one who "to whom" they are silent. This way the truth will not be born, you should not be afraid to clarify the situation 👈🏾🔻 close people always have many “trump cards” ♣🃏 in their hands - in order to hurt, hurt or humiliate their partner more painfully. These 👉🏾bonuses will not lead you to winning!🔻 there is no need for unnecessary things📥! Don’t bring into a quarrel something that has nothing to do with it 😷 otherwise a squabble will begin, in the spirit of “here you are” 🔻👻 the soul and feelings of the other are dark! Talk about yourself 💬 You don’t need to tell your partner how he treats you and what you think he feels 📢 these are your thoughts - and quite possibly they have nothing to do with reality 🔻 attacks on your partner’s values ​​💔 yes, in terms of the ability to hurt - they don’t equal! And you’re beating someone?👊🏾 someone close to you!🔻 don’t threaten😡 don’t escalate the situation, it will be hard to disperse these clouds later and “throw up your hands”⛈These rules, quite possibly, won’t be able to be put into practice right away. And you - try it! 🌟Little by little and getting used to the new model of behavior. The most important thing is to remember this in time, and to make a little effort🙇🏻productive and rare quarrels for you!🌞