Sometimes there are difficult moments in a marriage, when it seems that life together is on the verge of collapse. A lot in family relationships depends on the woman, the wife. Because it is by nature softer, more flexible, more sensitive. However, sometimes in a difficult situation a woman becomes lost and despairs. Here advice or simply the sympathetic attention of a grandmother, mother, older sister - those who have rich life experience and whom you trust - can come to the rescue. often these completely different senior councils give similar and very wise advice. When leaving - leave Many representatives of the fair sex, having once again quarreled with their husbands, leave the house, loudly slamming the door. As a rule, they “sit out” with their friends, complaining about their husband, drinking tea and waiting for a call from their loved one. After a couple of hours, having drunk all the tea and pretty much bored everyone in her friend’s household, the woman powders her swollen nose and returns home like a beaten dog. Wise, happy wives believe that it is better to throw out the phrase: “I’m leaving you!” you can only do it once. But you will need to leave without delay, completely and irrevocably. Don’t turn your departure into a farce. If you slam the door because of every little thing, then one day it may turn out to be closed to you. Don't be frank with your mother-in-law If you are lucky and your mother-in-law is the best in the world. She understands you, supports you and has truly become a second mother, and in the evening your favorite pastime is to drink tea with her and have a pleasant conversation, don’t be frank. Of course, you don’t need to look at your mother-in-law like a wolf. But still, avoid discussing with her the negative character traits of your common beloved man, any disagreements or secrets between you and your husband. Her son will still be a closer person to whom she can tell the topic of your conversation at any moment, also in her own interpretation and with her own comments. The result is a very ugly story and mutual grievances. Forgive sincerely Sometimes protracted conflicts occur in family life. They are most often associated with betrayal and betrayal. It’s difficult to keep a family together, and you experience a whole range of feelings: resentment, emptiness, anger. First of all, understand yourself. To do this, it is better for the spouses to first live a little isolated from each other. When passions calm down, start negotiations. If you are ready to forgive your spouse, do it once and for all. Never remind him of the wrongdoing. If you cannot forgive sincerely, do not torture yourself. By pretending that all your troubles are in the past, you will literally “eat” yourself. Accept the breakup as a stage of life. Because sometimes life is longer than love, unfortunately. You can use specially created audio forgiveness meditations. You can download the audio forgiveness meditation HERE>>