Hyper-custody is a type of upbringing in which parents overprotect the child, not allowing him to make decisions and independently solve problems that arise. This approach can lead to the fact that the child does not learn independence and will not be able to take responsibility for his actions. The psychology of overprotection can be associated with various factors, such as the fear and anxiety of parents for their child, the desire to protect him from any possible dangers, or simply the desire control all aspects of the child's life. However, overprotection can lead to various problems, such as low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, problems with communication and social adaptation. In addition, overprotective parents themselves may experience difficulties in relationships with other people, since they often believe that their child needs constant control. Parents who understand the harmfulness of overprotection, having themselves grown up in such a family, can easily fall to the other extreme - into hypoprotection! Hypoprotection or hypoprotection is a complete lack of control over the child’s behavior, lack of attention to his life and health. This is one of the extremes of education, which cannot be called a good form of education. For example, parents do not know whether the child was at school today or what he ate all day - these are examples of hypoprotection. Hypoprotection has its consequences. Lack of attention and control from parents leads to the fact that the child does not know how to behave in society, how to communicate with people, how to resolve conflicts and how to manage his emotions. He becomes withdrawn, unsure of himself, prone to aggression and violence. The child does not receive the necessary experience of communication and socialization, which can lead to difficulties in the future. So, one more time. Overprotection is an excessive manifestation of care and control over another person, which can lead to negative consequences, and hypoprotection is a lack of attention and control, two extremes. In this story we will talk about overprotection, which led to tragic consequences for one young man. At the beginning of the story, our hero, a young man named Andrei, was very caring and responsible. He always helped his parents around the house, took care of his younger siblings, and tried to be the best in everything he did. However, over time, Andrei began to realize that his parents were overprotective and controlling of him. They constantly monitored his every move, checked his phone and email, and even followed his friends on social networks. Andrei began to realize that he felt like he was in a cage, and this began to affect his mental health and relationships with loved ones. One day, when Andrei was at a party with his friends, his parents found out about this and immediately came to pick him up. They chastised him for not notifying them of his absence and banned him from attending any events without their permission. Andrey was furious and felt very offended. After a few months, Andrey decided to leave home and start living on his own. He realized that overprotection can be dangerous to a person's mental and emotional health, and that each person's personal space and freedom must be respected. He moved to another city and started working full time. However, his parents continued to control his life and tried to bring him home, because without them he would be lost. Andrei felt that they did not understand his needs and desires, and that their care was suffocating him, their excessive control only prevented him from developing and being happy. He decided to break all ties with them and start a new life without their influence. The parents felt offended and called their son ungrateful. This is the sad ending of our story. And so that you, as parents, do not become the heroes of this plot, give your children freedom and do not go to the other extreme called hypoprotection. And articles and, of course, therapy will help you with this.