Alexey’s father was not his own, but he called him dad. So native, as it seemed to me. My client’s mother and “father” got married when he was 2 years old, and a year later he had a brother, Sashka. Alexey learned that “Dad” was not his own at the age of 13. After a big scandal, when he was taken away from the next local police station. Lekha was so tired of proving his right to his place in this family that he shouted in offense: “It’s as if I’m not your own, that’s all Sashenka Sashenka, and I’m Lyoshka” And the Mother is in her hearts answered: “You are not my own”…. Not for me, she stopped short, for dad... But it was too late. The guy was rushing down the stairs without making out the way. I heard this story at the 4th session from my client Alexey. And he came with a request: “Help me understand what my wife wants, everything is not enough for her, everything is wrong.” After leaving home Another misfortune happened to Leshka. He was hit by a motorcycle and suffered a severe fracture of his arm. You could forget about a career in boxing. But the guy was very promising, as the coach said. They didn’t support me at home, they didn’t regret it. They said it’s okay, you’ll find yourself again. After leaving home, the relationship with my parents finally deteriorated. He continued to be friends only with his brother. I was a little angry with him, but I loved him. And that’s why I didn’t take out my grudge against my father and mother. Alexey lived with his grandmother. She always called him by his full name. I told my client that the reason may not be that he chooses the wrong women, but that every time he chooses the one, the only one, the most significant, in order to prove to her that he is worthy. But as it turned out, this option was unsuccessful. His mother saw in him her ex-husband, her son’s own father, who was “unlucky,” and Lyoshka reminded her of him so much. She often praised his brother. After all, his father was a “traveler.” And “as it should be.” Alexey is already over 30. Relations with his parents are even, with his mother strained, with his father he will do. But with his wives he had no luck. I changed the 3rd one, but still the same. He makes good money. He gives gifts, takes him on vacation, but it’s not the same. Either he has a headache or he’s talking to his girlfriends on the phone. But he doesn’t give him any attention or care. I suggested that Alexey work on changing the life scenario adopted in childhood. And see what happens. And how can the wife change or let it be the 4th wife. The choice is his…