How to convey to your husband that he is to blame when he goes out to the club with friends? After all, I’m offended, especially pregnant. My answer to this question is I can’t stand such verdicts: who is right and who is wrong. And in my couples’ sessions this is not the case either. Because in the rightness of one in a couple, there is always room for resentment. When I remain with resentment in my heart, I become “higher” than my partner. Read: “I’m better than you, not like you.” And then the likelihood of reaching out and being understood by each other decreases. Of course, during pregnancy, the woman bears the main burden in the family - to maintain the pregnancy. And during this period, more than ever, you need the support of your spouse. There is a place to clearly and without ambiguous connotations convey to your spouse about this: what is difficult for you now and without his support you may not be able to cope. —————-In fact, there are different ways to convey information about your experiences to another. It is very important to first determine for yourself what would be the best option for solving this problem?➿In an order format, force a person to sit at home, in the hope that he will worry about your condition.➿Or talk about your condition, for which you are experiencing. In the 1st case, as a rule, people instinctively avoid fulfilling the demands of the other, especially in a couple. In the 2nd case, there is a chance that you can be heard and something will change in your relationship. But in the second case, no one will give you guarantees. Because each of us first thinks about himself, satisfies his needs and sets his priorities, and then thinks about others. And, of course, there is always a price for this too. Also a conflict can be viewed from the point of view of value guidelines. It happens that a couple’s values ​​do not coincide, and then we don’t understand how this can be done at all. Try to learn to HEAR each other. This is a good skill for building long-term relationships. After all, you are at the same time, and not who - whom. With thoughts of you, psychologist Anna Kurdyukova.