He left on an ordinary everyday day, dividing your life before and after, and perhaps disappeared after a couple of months of unexpected joy and romance. Stopped answering calls as if he wasn’t even there, at the very peak of feelings, disappointed hopes, severe loneliness and the death of crazy butterflies inside. It doesn’t matter how and when he left, it doesn’t matter whether he came into your real life at all, the main thing is that you were suddenly immersed in anticipation, as if frozen and your whole life has stopped, as if on pause. LIFE AS WAITING You can come to this stop any way at any age, but once you get here you will stay here for many years. Your life, people, events, your opportunities will pass by. Sometimes you will get out of this expectation into a new relationship, as if on a regular bus or hitching a ride, but an unknown force will pull you back. You will call it unhappy love and return to this place over and over again and, as if Hachiko, wait for HIM. Loyalty and devotion always expect a reward, sometimes he will return to your life with confused SMS, strange calls, come to your house. And at this moment your life will begin to move again, as if a spring river will break the ice that has bound it. No matter how hard you try to hold on to your happiness, in the morning it will disappear as if it never existed. Winter again, ice, stop, pause again, loneliness and waiting again. HOW TO DISCOVER YOURSELF AND START LIVING Usually this scenario arises for a woman who spent her childhood waiting for her dad, who left her, going on a business trip, to another family, to his unresolved Problems. For such a girl, love is always waiting, loneliness and pain. Growing up, she chooses men with whom she can experience these feelings familiar from childhood. This is what makes them special, dear, the only one possible for her. She is ready to wait, not noticing how time is passing. What to do, how to change the usual scenario? As long as you live with the expectations of this girl, it will be difficult for you to leave the stop and move on to your adult life, in which there will be mutual love and family. You will need to notice this little girl in yourself, meet her and pick her up from the window. This can be done together with a psychologist, you can sign up for a consultation by phone 8 (910) 852-52-26, Skype swetlaja-