When children become objects of parental narcissistic expectations, the child's life turns into a pursuit of trophy achievements in order to make mom and dad happy. First, good grades are required, then, to be the best in class, to take first place in competitions. It turns out that the child must correspond to a certain ideal formed in the head of the parent. Even if a child tries very hard to live up to..., this will always not be enough to satisfy ambitions (since the nature of these ambitions is Pride, and she, as we know, is an insatiable lady). Any deviation from ..... will cause indignation and anger, as well as painful feelings of one’s own imperfection. Such a parent knows everything about his child: what to wear, who to be friends with, which section to attend, which university to enroll in, while honestly investing all his strength and resources. But he knows nothing about the inner world and needs of his son (daughter). At the same time, outwardly, they believe that they are creating a bright future for their children. Isn’t the burden too heavy for a child, isn’t he deprived of the most important thing in life - self-reliance, his feelings and his own desires - in an effort to meet parental expectations?.