From the author: Let's start with the fact that this smart and kind knight can easily conquer the woman he likes, but... the lack of life experience gets in the way: "What to do with her outside the Internet later? " Right? Right. Nothing! After the “fortress has been taken” and the Princess is in the arms of the Noble Knight, not without mutual feelings, what to do with her? “Fears” of the Noble Knight Let's start with the fact that this smart and kind knight can easily conquer the woman he likes, but... the lack of life experience gets in the way: “What to do with her later outside the Internet?” Right? Right. Nothing! After the “fortress has been taken” and the Princess is in the arms of the Noble Knight, not without mutual feelings, what to do with her? 1. “I’ll have a nice chat with her and wait, because I want to check if she has someone.” 2. "I will behave without showing feelings for her." 3. "Damn, she has Yura, (Vanya, Sasha, Dima)... I'm late again! That's it! It's time to "reel in the fishing rods!" 4. "Well, I'll wait a little more... Maybe she'll turn on me your attention?" 5. "Fly away again! Yura got ahead of me... That's it! I went to look for another Princess..." This is the position of an insecure person who dreams of happiness, but because of his timidity cannot achieve it. Why? But he simply did NOT move on. Women very often like to boast of attention from men , tease, just tickle the nerves, but in fact, with bated breath, they WAIT with bated breath that this particular Noble Knight will be bolder and a hundred times better than Yura, Vanya, Sasha, Dima... The Princess doesn’t like these “stuntmen” so much, she I like the Knight, who has so little courage... And there is only one step left to happiness... What is simple? To understand that communicating on a computer or by phone “protects” people who are insecure and have some external defects, what do they think? - they would “hide” themselves behind the monitor screen. But this is an illusion, a defensive reaction, so the Step of the Noble Knight is this: forget about “Yura, Van, Sasha, Dima,” etc., realizing and feeling that the Noble Knight is BETTER than them. all together and just meet the Princess in reality. Start dating further, overcome the fear that “I’m ugly... I’m sick... Who needs me? I have little material income...” Stop whining and inventing fears for yourself! The Princess is about to get tired of waiting, opening her loving heart and accepting her Noble Knight as he is, with all his illnesses, wounds, complexes, feeling that He is He, and not Yura, Sasha, Dima, Vanya, Kolya , she needs it! She and this modest man, who is gifted from God with the very best qualities of a man: kindness, sincerity, fidelity, the desire to create an indestructible Family, to love and take care of his Wife and children, who are sacred to him, have mutual feelings and plans for life. . So maybe it's time to take the sword and drive away the Princess pretense, get up from behind the computer, buy a bouquet of roses and invite her to dinner? Well, sir?)) What do you say? Eteri Olkhovaya, psychologist, parapsychologist.