It often happens that the only solution to family problems is compromise. By compromise, I mean a solution that suits both partners. It is extremely important to accept the point of view of the spouse/partner. You may not agree with everything your spouse says or believes, but try to find something in his (or her) point of view that is acceptable to you. This will make it easier to find a solution that suits both. I suggest you do an exercise that will help you find reasons for a compromise: 1. Agree on what problem you want to discuss.2. Sit separately and think about it.3. On a piece of paper, draw 2 circles - the smaller one inside the larger one.4. On the inside, write down the components of the problem on which you cannot concede. In the outer circle, list the points on which you are willing to compromise. It’s good if the outer circle turns out to be larger than the inner one. It will be easier to reach a compromise. For example, the problem of sex is discussed. What might the circles of compromise look like for a woman? Inner circle1. I want to feel like we're making love, not sex.2. I want you to hug me and stroke me a lot. Outer circle1. I prefer to have sex at night, but sex in the morning is also good.2. It's great when you talk to me a lot during intimacy, but I can compromise on this too.3. I love classic positions, but sometimes I don’t mind more daring experiments. Your partner performs the exercise in the same way. You can then exchange your lists with each other, and everyone's task is to find common grounds for compromise. This task is not always easy, especially if there are large differences in the preferences of the partners. But even in this case, for example, variability can be achieved. One time you both act according to your spouse's plan, another time - according to your plan, etc. Let me remind you that the purpose of this exercise is to develop the ability to think about a problem together in order to come up with some kind of joint plan. I wish you success in completing this exercises! If any obstacles arise, please contact us, together we will identify the reasons for resistance and find opportunities to eliminate them..