This article is a continuation of the article that can be read here At the next session, Irina said that she and her neighbor now say hello, they can even talk a little. Irina I noticed that when talking with a neighbor, she does not experience any hostile feelings, but when she is at home, everything starts all over again as soon as she hears any sounds from the apartment below. Irina was given the task of writing down all the situations associated with her neighbor that caused her irritation. Here is what the list turned out to be: 1. Comes home late and starts talking or sometimes singing, but not so loudly.2. He talks loudly (so it seems to Irina) on the phone, although not very loudly, just like the other neighbors. She doesn't hear what is being said, she just hears sounds.3. Laughs loudly. 4. I really don’t like her voice coming through the wall. Irina: - I think I don’t like her voice, or more specifically, it seems somehow familiar to me, but I can’t remember when I heard it. If you look at all these situations, they are connected not so much with the woman herself but with her voice. It is the neighbor’s voice that all the irritation in the form of negative emotions such as anger and malice is directed at. - Why are you annoyed by the voice coming from the apartment below? - Because it reminds me of some unpleasant events. - How old were you then? - 5 years. I was five years old. - What happened then? Silence. I show her metaphorical association cards from the Healing the Inner Child deck. I ask them to just watch, and maybe one of them will respond. She chose this one, saying: “I remembered.” And then I narrate the story from her words and with her permission. “When I was five years old, my mother was admitted to the hospital, and I stayed with my father. Dad loved me very much, and I loved him too. We had a good time together. We didn’t have any grandmothers nearby, so dad took care of me himself while mom was away. He handled everything well. - One day, I wake up at night and hear a woman’s voice coming through the wall. It wasn't mom's voice. The voice laughed a lot, I heard him (the voice) talking about mom and giggling. I became very scared, I could not move. I suddenly started screaming and calling for dad. He came, but before entering he turned the key in my door. Now I know this for sure. “I told him that I heard some aunt talking at our house, to which he said that I dreamed it all. And then I heard footsteps and the front door opening. Dad came and said that he would protect me. “A year later he left us.” Thus, the source of Irina’s irritation was a voice similar to that woman’s voice. Irina decided to get to know her neighbor better, especially since the girl had already made attempts to get closer to Irina. Work with Irina continues, but this will be a completely different story, and maybe a continuation of this one... If suddenly you feel that you are constantly out of sorts, that someone or something is constantly annoying you, you are experiencing a lot of negative feelings , contact us, we’ll sort it out. I work carefully, environmentally friendly, and confidentially. Sincerely, psychologist Zinaida Chistikova You can sign up for a consultation via WhatsApp, Viber, Teltgram+7 932 254 35 03 or click here