Today the topic of conversation will be serious and will raise perhaps deepest feelings, touch the strings of a vulnerable soul, and as they say, “the faint of heart, please leave.” And the main question: why? How can you destroy something yourself? A person, without thinking about the consequences, with his own thoughts destroys almost all the undertakings that appear on the way. In life, a person is constantly looking for answers to his questions and the best thing he can come up with is to listen to the advice of others. For what? As if the people around them know better what a person needs at the moment, what is important to him and can describe in vivid colors what prospects lie ahead. They just forget that they are talking about a stranger, about someone whose life seems ordinary and is lived as if from a carbon copy. The life path of each person is determined by various situations that belong only to the one who lives his personal story, which differs not only in external circumstances, but also in internal ones stereotypes, norms, principles and dogmas that limit possibilities to the outline of the doorway. Each person drowns only in his own thoughts, which ultimately lead to a dead end if left unattended. The individual’s need for socialization initially has basic criteria along with the need for food, shelter and water. A person needs a person and brain activity manifests itself only during communication, tactile sensations and in contact with loved ones. Scientists around the world have proven that a person develops and grows in a family, regardless of its well-being and living conditions, because energy exchange between close people satisfies a significant part of the basic needs of the human body. Due to the ability to attract attention from the first days, the baby not only needs care and attention, but also feels safe only with tactile touches, the mutual exchange of energy of human warmth. If There is no physiological contact with the child, then the functions important for development seem to be asleep, and the more time the child spends alone with himself, the more difficult it is to teach him in the future, to develop even primary skills. Likewise, the longer an adult remains without contact with people, the more more difficult to adapt to the environment. An isolated lifestyle creates an illusion of safety, which gives hope for healing on one’s own, forgetting that the brain provides cyclical averaged information based on one’s own experience. “I can handle it on my own, why do I need a psychologist?” - asks almost every second person on psychological forums. Then a counter question: - Why are you still involved in various conversations? What are you looking for??